"fish cheeks by amy tan" If acceptance is achieved through similarity,
"fish cheeks by amy tan" If acceptance is achieved through similarity,
In the book Chains by Laurie Halse Anderson, Isabel is kindhearted.This is shown in chapter 5 when she protects her little sister, Ruth, from being harmed by Mrs. Lockton. When the sisters arrive to New York City, they overhear Madam’s argument with a cargo inspector over having her chest full of underclothes searched. This is a humorous scene, but while Isabel knows not to laugh, Ruth accidentally laughs. Feeling offended, Mrs. Lockton announces, “‘Which one of you made that noise’”(33)? Instead of blaming Ruth, Isabel lies, “‘I did, ma’am’”(33). After saying this, Madam slaps Isabel so hard she falls to the ground. This proves that Isabel is kindhearted because she protects Ruth from getting hit by receiving the painful hit herself. Another…
Rick Dadier, a war veteran is hired to teach at North Manual High School. This is his first teaching assignment, so he can support himself and his pregnant wife. Dadier learns quickly that the school has a severe discipline problem, and the established teachers advise him how to deal with the students. Regardless, Dadier tries to discipline the class and this provokes a violent response in which Dadier is ambushed by a group of students. Dadier then goes to seek advice from his old mentor and is then faced with two choices too either go to another school or stay at the school. Dadier returns to the school the next day and is reported by a student for using racial epithets. Due to this Dadier is called into the principal’s office and after a heated argument where Dadier reasons with the principle, after the principal attempts to regain his trust by giving him the Christmas Show. The movie continues with Dadier and his colleagues in the classroom where he is enraged about the complacent and complaining attitude from his fellow teachers as well as their lack of innovation and ideas to fix the juvenile delinquency of the kids. Dadier then tries to connect with the kids through a simple cartoon by making them think. In an attempt…
In the story “Inside Out”, the author, Francisco Jimenez, describes a rather quiet character. Francisco’s family moved from Mexico to the United States, so he had trouble speaking the English language at his school. While in school, he met a kid named Arthur who could speak some Spanish. The two became friends because they can communicate with each other. However, whenever the teacher hears him talk in Spanish with his friend, she tells him to speak English.…
older a similar attitude was evident. Even though he respected his parents choices he didn’t…
A “quintessential 80’s movie,” The Breakfast Club is a film rich with psychological principles. This movie is about a group of high school teenagers filled with personal angst who spend a Saturday serving their detention sentences in the school library. Each teenager from a different clique, they didn’t expect to relate as much to each other as they thought. As they begin to get to know each other, the vengeful assistant principal Vernon starts to single out Bender, the rebel of the group of teenagers. Initially, none of the other teenagers help Bender. This demonstrates the bystander effect because they don’t help Bender; this effect can be explained by the absence of group membership and cohesiveness because the 5 strangers don’t really know each other yet. But when assistant principal Vernon locks Bender in a closet, the group has already established trustworthy relationships among its members, so they decide to help Bender escape. Also, assistant principal Vernon debatably exhibited deindividuation when he proceeded to threaten Bender and to lock him inside a closet. Normally, an assistant principal of a high school wouldn’t speak cruelly or do such things to a student, but because of the situation (their history together and how Bender always seemed to have won), Vernon acts this way. Finally, each teenager demonstrated conformity in his/her own way. Bender covered up his scars from the abuse he received from his dad so that he wouldn’t be judged as weak for them; Andy, the jock, covered up his hatred for his father because he didn’t want to be seen as abnormal; Brian, the geek, contemplated suicide but never told anyone because he didn’t want to be perceived as depressed; Allison, the outcast, lies compulsively because she has to keep up a reputation she has created; and Claire, the popular girl, hides the fact that she is still a virgin because all of her friends are not virgins and she doesn’t want to be considered…
I tried so many different things just to be liked and none of them worked. I tried wearing more makeup and doing my hair. I tried smoking cigarettes and being rude to my teachers just to stand out and get attention. None of it worked. I was always going to be known as the girl who could never fit in. I was trying so hard that I made everyone who was always there for me not want to be around me anymore. I hardly ever talked to my parents or the rest of my family because there was only one thing on my mind which was ‘I got to find a way to fit in and stand out.’ In the essay I mentioned earlier the author brings up a little nine year old girl who has so much going on she didn’t have any time to be a kid and play (207). In a way, that’s how I felt. No time to do anything else but to try and be part of the “in”…
High school also has an unparalleled reputation of students trying to "fit in" with their peers and peer-pressure causing people to accept values different to their own, which is similar to Anzaldύa 's case. In Anzaldύa 's essay, she reflects on the situation that many people face in a contact zone of many different cultures. She begins by explaining how she felt unaccepted by all groups, Americans, Mexicans, and other Spanish speakers. Many people are also forced accept certain cultures over the other. Anzaldύa "was accused by various Latinos and Latinas" of a being a " 'Pocho, cultural traitor '". Anzaldύa was rejected by many Latinos and did not mix well with Americans either. Gaining respect of peers is also very hard in high school.…
As a baby we have our identity created for us, they say “give me the boy at seven and I will give you the man” implying that until the age of seven a child is dependent on their very first social unit, that is family. It is the multiplicity and complexity of family that gives children real life experiences into human relationships and what teaches them morals and values which will always be a part of their identity, although as you age, and mature you become less dependent on your family and are able to venture out into the world. This usually happens around the age of adolescence. This is a time when adolescences have the world at their feet and they are “servants to their own dreams”. Many people enjoy this part of growing up as their bodies are at the peak, meaning they are able to push them to do whatever they want. They are less susceptible to illnesses and less likely to damage themselves; when they do the body’s ability to repair at that age is remarkable. Not only are they at the physically peak of their lives, they are usually at the social peak. Their social networks at this age are usually…
Losing one’s individuality is most common to individuals who are exposed and influenced by others throughout life. The idea from “The Sociology of Leopard Man” by Logan Feyes discusses how indi viduals are confronted with conformity in order to fit in with society. Conforming is one obstacle that many people face through life. When a person conforms it means that they undergo a change in order to fit in with society. Unlike conformists, non-conformists are the “unusual” part of the world that do not undergo a change within themselves to fit in with the world. These people are often looked down upon and ridiculed by their personal lifestyles. While some people decide not to give in to their personality, I believe that the idea from leopard, the influence of families, and the atmosphere of schools will dictate one’s decision whether to conform or not.…
Coming of age is a young person’s transition from adolescence to adulthood. For most this can be a very difficult time and can cause a lot of pressure, especially for teenagers. In Richard Wright’s The Man Who Was Almost a Man, the main character, Dave, thinks he is ready to show everyone that he is a man. Dave wants people to give him more respect and treat him like a man; however, his actions seem to backfire leaving him with less respect than he had before.…
An essential lesson in growing up is being able to accept oneself. Self- acceptance is being pleased with oneself; not caring about other people’s opinions. If children do not learn accept themselves, then they will never be able to truly mature. For example, in the short story Through the Tunnel by Doris Lessing the protagonist, Jerry, yearns to be like the older boys. He is juvenile, seeking to fit in; wanting to be approved by the them. He is persistent to prove to them that he can make it…
Chains, a work of historical fiction by Laurie Halse Anderson is about a young slave girl named Isabel living at the time of the American Revolution. She and her younger sister, Ruth are living a happy life in Rhode Island with their kind master, Miss Mary Finch, until she dies and they are turned over to her mean nephew. They are promised their freedom in Miss Mary Finch’s will, but do not receive it because nobody respects them enough to check. When they are sold to a Loyalist couple called the Locktons who live in New York City, Isabel still dreams that one day she and Ruth will become free people. Awhile later, Isabel decides to become a spy for the Patriot army, hopeful that if she helps them, they will reward her and her sister with their…
Some people are pressured to lose their identity to society’s demands everyday and this is called forcing one to become a conformist. They are coerced to act, look, and be a certain way to please the public eye. An example that can be seen easily these days are kids who wear the same style clothing as their friends, and behave a certain way to fit in with other kids even if they are not being true to themselves.This is because no one likes the feeling of being an outcast and lonely, so most tried their best to convince others to like their counterfeit personality. However, one should recognize the value of every imperfection and perfection aspect of themselves. Society tends to pressure people to change themselves due to the fact that there is too much pressure to fit in, which causes one to lose their individuality and become a…
Most teenagers experience peer pressure - conformity to thoughts, actions, and appearance of others. Due to the desire to fit in and be accepted, teenagers are vulnerable to the pressure to change. Isolation from others frightens people into conformity. Individuals are alike in all different ways even if it is not noticeable. How does such fear of isolation lead to conformity? A piece of clothing may not be one's style, but everyone else owns it so one would feel obligated to acquire a piece. Loneliness is painful so to avoid it, conformity to others may be the easiest way. Personally, I am not one to conform to others because I have learned my lesson. My experience with conformity leaves a bitter trail in my memories. So bitter that I hated…
Both children and adults can be compared in how they act and respond to certain things. “Children, although somewhat aware of the rules, tend to act in a carefree manor, worrying mostly about themselves in their decisions while adults are controlled by the opinions of others and their own feelings” (McDonough). “It is this pressure to conform to the standards of society’s normal that push the adults to act a certain way whilst children do not really feel the need to fit” (Jusewicz-Haidle). In other words, adults have learned for the most part, to act against the impulses that children feel and follow until they too understand what is acceptable. Whether they follow the standards afterwards is completely their choice.…