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Grief In James Mcbride's The Color Of Water
In James McBride’s The Color of Water, both James and Ruth were affected with Hunter Jordan’s death in different ways.
James griefed over Hunter Jordan’s death, but he didn’t properly deal with it. His way of grief was to not dealing with it. He started acting up which is not unusual especially since he saw his stepdad as an actual father, and when he died unexpectedly, James didn’t know how to properly deal with his loss. It also seemed like he had some sort of anger adding on to the sadness due to his actions. For example, James was on the right track, but after his step-father's death, he “virtually dropped out of high school” and just hung out with friends. (6)” He also did immoral things like like shoplift and steal purses. (6). Because

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