From the beginning of the novel, exploitation can be clearly seen as the significant and recurring theme. It is so miserable that Griet is utilized by her own parents through the way they make her work for Vermeer household without forewarning and negotiation to earn the whole family living because they “have no choice”, even though they declare that they “are not ruled by riches”. What is more, they also ‘encourage’ Griet’s relationship with Pieter the butcher’s son, but for no reason other than “the content to take the gifts of meat and have her stand in an alley with him”, to keep a solid income. “I also knew what a hardship it would be to them to have him come….despite my wages and what my mother made, they could barely feed themselves”, “I looked in her eyes and saw there the hunger for meat that a butcher’s son could provide”. It is digested that her parents “set aside their pride” and see Pieter proposal as “a way of filling their own stomach in the future. A butcher’s wife and her parents would always eat well”. They do not care about her emotions, they do not ask if she likes him, agree to marry him or not. Being aware of his importance, Pieter imposes upon Griet as well -
From the beginning of the novel, exploitation can be clearly seen as the significant and recurring theme. It is so miserable that Griet is utilized by her own parents through the way they make her work for Vermeer household without forewarning and negotiation to earn the whole family living because they “have no choice”, even though they declare that they “are not ruled by riches”. What is more, they also ‘encourage’ Griet’s relationship with Pieter the butcher’s son, but for no reason other than “the content to take the gifts of meat and have her stand in an alley with him”, to keep a solid income. “I also knew what a hardship it would be to them to have him come….despite my wages and what my mother made, they could barely feed themselves”, “I looked in her eyes and saw there the hunger for meat that a butcher’s son could provide”. It is digested that her parents “set aside their pride” and see Pieter proposal as “a way of filling their own stomach in the future. A butcher’s wife and her parents would always eat well”. They do not care about her emotions, they do not ask if she likes him, agree to marry him or not. Being aware of his importance, Pieter imposes upon Griet as well -