I decided to attend a meeting based first (and almost solely) on convenience of the location. So I decided to attend a meeting right here in Batavia. The “Batavia 12 & 12” at the Holy Trinity Church down on 6th & Wood St. They hold meeting on Mondays around 11:00am. The main focus is to follow the 12 steps in order and work on them in a more traditional fashion. They do have the big book, but follow it more in a step by step focus. However karma decided to rear its head and make it a Closed Meeting, meaning that it is not as open to the public to sit on and they only allow members who are coming with a problem related to alcohol. So at first I was turned away but, I was lucky enough to know a person (local firefighter) who attends the church, and talked the host into letting me sit in on a meeting. So with the awkwardness of getting into the door out of the way, it was time for the meeting.…
Alcoholics Anonymous is an organisation dedicated to helping people recover from alcoholism. Open meetings are open to anyone, while closed meetings are only open for recovering alcoholics. Meetings are about one hour long. A major component of AA are the twelve steps as outlined in The Big Book:…
My first experience at an alcoholics anonymous meeting was very interesting and in a way uplifting. The meeting I attended took place in Philadelphia Miss at 208 Range Ave. at 7:30 p.m. in the evening. Alcoholics Anonymous is an international mutual aid fellowship founded in 1935 by Bill Wilson and Dr. Bob Smith in Akron, Ohio. AA states that its “primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics achieve sobriety”. The only membership requirement is to stop drinking and to carry its message to the alcoholic who suffers. There were 20 people excluding myself and two others. Among the 17 people there were seven women and ten men. The ages range from around 20-60. Of the 17 people there, there were little to no diversity within the group. Prior to the meeting I was expecting to enter into a room filled with smoke and nervous, agitated people. My impression of AA and of alcoholics mostly came from my own prior experience with population suffering from different psychiatric disorders. I was expecting a lot of smoking, coffee drinking, twitching and general nervous behaviors. Something that really threw me off was that there were people there with degrees from universities. When I think about alcoholics I think of someone walking down the street in ragged clothes, but to my surprise the meeting mostly was attended by normal appearance people that I would never suspect of having any addition problems. The people were very calm, cool and collected. The meeting started with the serenity prayer followed by the 12 steps, 12 traditions. Then they allowed people who were new or if it was their first meeting to introduce themselves and tell their story to the fight of addiction related to alcohol. Many talked about God and how he delivered them from drinking. I sympathized with one lady (Christy) a Registered nurse when she shared her story about how alcohol and drugs ruined her career. By sharing their stories I found that to be a very positive thing to do. It…
The support group I attended was on October 19th, 2012 at 12pm at Wesley Church located on Barstow Avenue. It was in the Winterburg Education Building in room 3. A gentleman by the name of Andy was leading the group. He first said a prayer and then asked if there were any new members. There were none so he asked if there were visitors. I introduced myself and said I was a Fresno State nursing student. He then said today they were going to talk about Step 12, which was about service. Service was about introducing AA to people that could benefit from the program. Before you were expected to complete step 12, they wanted you to complete steps 1-11 first. The first person that spoke about his past was the leader, Andy. He shared with everyone that he had had three divorces and at one point his children didn’t talk to him. Alcoholism destroyed his life in his early years. He’s now twenty years sober. His last wife never came back to him but his children have since come back into his life. He leads AA meetings now because he expressed how AA helped him get his life back into order.…
The Alcoholics Anonymous meeting was definitely a reality check for me. There were many people that were there that announced that they were an addict that did not look or…
You are not only helping someone in areas where they can’t necessarily help themselves, but also helping yourself. You are gaining character and leadership skills to better your future career, There are many issues in the community that a simple act of service can help. Volunteering is also very valuable when it comes to entering college. It shows colleges that the applicant is bringing something to their campus and they are ready to go above and beyond to succeed and accomplish goals inside the classroom. It can also impress admission officers when trying to enroll in graduate school. Once out of college volunteering can demonstrate to future employers that you have a dedications for your community and would have the same for your…
Alcoholism is not something that can be treated alone many times. The more a person is dependent on alcohol in their lives, the more their brain attempts to convince themselves that they do not need help and that if they stop drinking their lives will be worse. In each testimony given, everyone had a different way they initially made their approach to get better, whether it be rehab or Alcoholic Anonymous meetings, but the one thing they all had in common was that the more meetings they attended the meetings the easier the healing process was. They all said that when they begin to miss meetings it would cause the urge to give in to the temptation to drink, and sometimes they did give…
The topic of the meeting was on feelings and emotions which I definitely could relate to. As people discussed their emotions and feelings I started feeling sad for some of them. I did not realize how much pain these people are in. I could feel their pain as they talked about what was weighing so heavily on their minds. I sat there and thought what I could do to help them. I started to feel a little sorry for some of them because I feel they depend too much on others to keep them from drinking. Don`t get me wrong the support network they have is amazing but only you can do it for yourself. I wanted so bad at times to tell some of these people only you can keep yourself clean. I think some of these people acted like only these meetings could keep them clean. I do not believe that to be the truth. I felt sorry for one girl because her friend had just committed suicide and she was having a hard time not taking a drink over it but the ones with more recovery time seem to come to her rescue. However, I thought what these people would…
At the start of the meeting some book readings were read off and they all said the serenity prayer. As everyone went around the room and talked about how alcohol affected their lives and how now that they were trying to be sober, I sat there and listened. A hand full of the people there did not share any stories or advice, they just said their names and that they were alcoholics and that they were just at the meeting to listen, not to share anything. A lot of the men told stories about how alcohol affected their personal and professional live. Something that really threw me off was that three of the men there all had degrees from universities.…
Prior to the meeting I was expecting to enter into a room filled with smoke and nervous, agitated people. My impression of AA and of alcoholics mostly came from movies and my own prior experience with population suffering from different psychiatric disorders. I was expecting a lot of smoking, coffee drinking, twitching and general nervous behaviors. To my surprise the meeting mostly was attended, by normal in appearance people, that I would never suspect of having any addiction problems. The people were not twitching (to my surprise), but instead were very calm, cool and collected. Many talked about God and holding AA as the higher power in their lives.…
They were very welcoming and friendly. When the meeting started a man starting talking about his addiction, how it was ruining his life, and everything he went through to work towards sobriety. He told the group that his last drink was 9 years ago. He was very inspirational and told everyone in the meeting that we are all equals, we do not judge anyone, and to not be ashamed of who you are. I felt like he made everyone that was listening become very comfortable. He told everyone that we are all going through the same thing and we are here to support each other. He was also referring to that we have to believe in a higher power to end this addiction and focused it around the 12-steps. He spoke for about 20 minutes, then we came together as a group. In the group, every person went around and introduced themselves if they were comfortable with doing so. They would talk about their addiction, problems, cravings they have, etc. It was very interactive, everyone would participate and give feedback and input to each…
My initial observation was that I felt welcome into their midst, as soon as I walked in two of the members got up and created a space for me in the circle of chairs that had been formed. There were about twenty people in attendance varying in age and sex. A book about the rules of AA was passed around and people were asked…
When I first came to the church, I was very nervous because it was a new environment for me, and I didn’t know anyone there. During the session, I became a little more comfortable. At the end of the meeting, everyone made me feel comfortable, and it was nice to hear everyone’s stories. What did surprise me though was that there were a lot of different ages. There were even some people who were close to my age, and people who were in their sixties. It showed me that anyone can have this problem, and even the older people may not know how to cope with this addiction. If I had clients who have alcohol problems, I would strongly encourage them to attend at least one Alcoholics Anonymous meeting. One benefit is that everything said at the meeting, stays at the meeting, and no one judges you at all because they are all going through similar problems. I would encourage my client to share his or her stories, and to let out all the emotions she or he has. Alcoholics Anonymous is also free, and everyone is welcome to attend. They value anonymity and also provide sponsors who can help guide alcoholics through the right…
The first meeting I decided to attend was an AA meeting. I choose this meeting from a list on Google.com. I did not have any requirements for the meeting, but I made my final decision based upon the location and familiarity of the location. I use to live in the area and was comfortable that my choice would be in a safe location. I choose to go to a meeting in the day time, due to safety and my gender. I drove to the meeting with no complications to finding the exact location. The church has signs that displayed “AA” and arrows guiding the direction of the front door. The meeting location is three blocks from public transportation. The meeting is held at a church which may prevent other religions from participating. I am a Christian; therefore I did not have any prior feeling about the meeting location, but a feeling of nervousness, and a sense of being naïve was present. My first observation was the lack of anonymity with the “AA” signs being displayed. I have seen “AA” meetings on T.V., so I came with a preconceived notion that the meeting would be conducted as I observed.…
When I saw on my syllabus that I had to attend an AA meeting, I was vey nervous, frightening and anxious. Walking through the door of my first AA meeting was, stressful and uncertain, since I did not know what to expect. Being an observator among total strangers, who, willing wasting their lives away by driking without any regards for their families and friends was not my idea of time well spend. There are hundreds of studies that had shown, alcohol have destructive short term and long term effects yet some people drink excessively without minding any of these harmful effects. By the way, what is AA meeting? “Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism.” With my notebook and a pen I healded to the meeting with specific guidelines from my intructor such as how was the meeting structure? What are the problems presented by the clients? What was my reactions to the meeting? And what is my belief in the effectiveness of this treatment modality?…