Say for instance, I have found contentment with being gay because at a Kenyon (a liberal arts school) my sexuality is accepted. Before, I wanted the desire to not like men, but I may find it very easy and safe being gay at Kenyon now. However, in the back of my mind I still know that even though I am accepted here, the whole world isn’t a big liberal arts utopia. Therefore, I would develop the third order desire: to have the desire to have the desire, to not have a desire to think it is fine to be content to like
Say for instance, I have found contentment with being gay because at a Kenyon (a liberal arts school) my sexuality is accepted. Before, I wanted the desire to not like men, but I may find it very easy and safe being gay at Kenyon now. However, in the back of my mind I still know that even though I am accepted here, the whole world isn’t a big liberal arts utopia. Therefore, I would develop the third order desire: to have the desire to have the desire, to not have a desire to think it is fine to be content to like