How do we become a Male or Female in our society?

Socialisation is ‘a continuing process whereby an individual acquires a personal identity and learns the norms, values, behaviour, and social skills appropriate to his or her social position.’ How he or she learns these skills can be affected on where they have been brought up, who they have grown up around and how they were taught. There are two different types of socialisation: Primary agents of socialisation and Secondary agents of socialisation. They are the people or organisations that affect how we grow and develop. Primary agents are usually the immediate, nuclear family. The socialisation skills that primary agents provide are part of the most important developmental stage a human being will go through. Secondary agents are the other social situations that someone can be in. Examples are school, neighbourhood friends, mass media and religion. These skills can greatly affect how a person is as they will often adapt to suit the certain situation.
Primary agencies have a large role in shaping how someone behaves. Because primary agencies are usually the first people that someone will see, the person will copy what they do. Also, because primary agencies are often the persons family, they have to teach them the first basics of life, and they will teach them to behave well in order for them to have the best chance in life. In terms of knowing if they are male or female, their primary agencies will often buy them clothes and toys that are designed for their gender. Sometimes, a person will not know fully if they are a male or female. But their parents can often explain about the different genders and gie their child a choice in whether they want to act like their stereotypical gender or not. Parents should encourage their child not to just follow the stereotypical roles when growing up as they should have a choice in life.
Similarly, Secondary agencies play a large part in influencing our gender roles. But, instead, you have more of a personal decision in what