(227)
This informs the reader that the narrators’ father was a very kind and well like man by everyone as McCorkle also writes, “You have given each of the grandchildren a secret story or joke at some time or another. They all take turns leaning in to kiss you…” (229). Although the author is never specific as to why or how the narrators father is dying, she and her family is given the semi-luxury of having time to say goodbye and truly cherish the last moments with him as the author describes it: “Mom, Jeannie and I sit by your bed and sing all of your favorite songs…You stare vacantly upward, your eyes dry and frozen”(231). His daughters’ perspective of reality changes throughout the story as she remembers all of these memories with her father and the little life lessons he tried to teach her “And now that I am over forty and soon will give your advice to my own children” (231). She also realizes “that rectifying a mistake is sometimes reason enough to exist”