According to Giddens (1997) defines socialisation as a process through which the helpless infant gradually becomes self-aware, knowledgeable person, skilled in the way the culture into which he or she is born. The term socialization is used by sociologists, social psychologists and educationalists to refer to the process of learning one’s culture and how to live within it. Socialization is also a way that people learn the norms and value of their …show more content…
Socialisation is a learning process because its an ongoing process. It makes us happy as we feel we belong to a society and also helps us to find ourselves. For example if an individual is shy and his or her friends are out going, it will help him in a way that he will be outgoing and regain his self esteem. For an individual, socialisation is important because it provides the skills and habits that are necessary for acting and participating within the society. Without this one can be very confused and miserable. Because we are born as a human doesn’t really make us human. You have to learn how to be human. Its not based on instinct. It’s a learning process. We need socialisation to fit into our culture of our …show more content…
A gender is considered as the differential socialisation of male and female in relation to change social structure. Socialisation tells us that socialisation reinforces our gender identity. Gender roles has been learnt and passed on from generation to generation.
Gender roles vary considerably in different societies and Anne Oakley in a range of books over many years has demonstrated that gender roles in our society acquired via the process of socialisation rather than biologically determined. Oakley (1981) argues that 1992) gender socialisation had four central element thus Manipulation, Canalisation, Verbal appellations and Different activities. Only Canalisation and Manipulation on will be discussed.
This is done through two process described by Oakley (1986) as Canalisation, where parents directing their children interest towards appropriate games and toys for their gender or sex. Example of canalisation is that of Stephen Pfohl (1992) talks about how he asked his parents if he could have a baby brother or sister, and his parents refused. He then asked if he can have a doll instead, and his parents agree, he went upstairs to his room with his window open, he heard his parents discussing the doll and their concerns about it. Hearing that, Stephen came downstairs to his parents and asked them to take the doll back and exchange