How to sacpe from pain of love
ESCAPING FROM THE PAIN OF LOVE by: Jeremiah Algem B. Mendez
Showing love for other is easy, in fact, people do it every day, because love is emotion explored in philosophy, religion, and literature, often as either romantic love, the fraternal love of others, or the love of God. Showing concern for other is one way to express love. But in case of entering a relationship, particularly love life, it’s a little bit hard to express our emotion, one reason is the fear of rejection. Most people were afraid to be rejected and if that happened I’m sure they will be hurt deeply. Unfortunately, even two persons commit theirselves to one another that love may don’t last, after an initial period of passion, romances fall apart and may result to a very painful breakup. So, as a teenager, how can we unbind this anguish in our hearts brought by breakup?
If you learn how to escape from the past, you will minimize the pain of breakup for sure. First of all, don’t blame yourself. Maybe you’ll probably ask what you did or what’s wrong with you to cause the breakup. Analyzing the situation isn’t bad but thinking that it’s your fault might be. Don’t beat yourself up, because that won’t change anything. Take some time for yourself that will help you heal. Make some bonding with your friends or with relatives, eat sometimes at restaurant, enjoy yourself playing ping-pong or even basketball. Whatever you do, just remember that the hurt will lessen with time.
Next, accept what happened. It’s not the end of your life, even though at first it may seem that way. “To give and take” and “to love and lose” is part of a relationship cycle. We learn from experiences, but that doesn’t mean that to take relationship is to take experience, that’s not the meaning of relationship. You will be wiser because you gained knowledge from that experience, and you are prepared to face life’s future challenges.
Finally, see friends and have fun. You can also put your love to someone once again,
Showing love for other is easy, in fact, people do it every day, because love is emotion explored in philosophy, religion, and literature, often as either romantic love, the fraternal love of others, or the love of God. Showing concern for other is one way to express love. But in case of entering a relationship, particularly love life, it’s a little bit hard to express our emotion, one reason is the fear of rejection. Most people were afraid to be rejected and if that happened I’m sure they will be hurt deeply. Unfortunately, even two persons commit theirselves to one another that love may don’t last, after an initial period of passion, romances fall apart and may result to a very painful breakup. So, as a teenager, how can we unbind this anguish in our hearts brought by breakup?
If you learn how to escape from the past, you will minimize the pain of breakup for sure. First of all, don’t blame yourself. Maybe you’ll probably ask what you did or what’s wrong with you to cause the breakup. Analyzing the situation isn’t bad but thinking that it’s your fault might be. Don’t beat yourself up, because that won’t change anything. Take some time for yourself that will help you heal. Make some bonding with your friends or with relatives, eat sometimes at restaurant, enjoy yourself playing ping-pong or even basketball. Whatever you do, just remember that the hurt will lessen with time.
Next, accept what happened. It’s not the end of your life, even though at first it may seem that way. “To give and take” and “to love and lose” is part of a relationship cycle. We learn from experiences, but that doesn’t mean that to take relationship is to take experience, that’s not the meaning of relationship. You will be wiser because you gained knowledge from that experience, and you are prepared to face life’s future challenges.
Finally, see friends and have fun. You can also put your love to someone once again,