Step 1: Hard work trump’s natural talent.
As in most everything , the people who are most successful in mathematics are the one who work the hardest , not those with “natural talent’’ in school, those who work hard get better grade in mathematics than the ‘’smart’’ students whom just coast .Most aspect of mathematics can only be learnt by hand practice. This holds true whether you want to develop your problem solving abilities or your computational skills. No one thinks they can run a marathon by using their natural talent, but there are lots of people with no talent for running who have worked hard and have successfully completed many marathons.
Step 2: Keep an open mind.
In mathematics almost everything you learn is useful, even if you can’t see it right way. All the formulas, theorem, ideas, proofs, and problems you study in high schools and colleges are connected to lots of real world applications, even if you don’t see them now. And more importantly, even if you think you’ll never use the specific things you are studying, they help develop your mind and make it easier for you to solve other problems, later the problems you really care about. It’s like boxing: training programmes for boxers often involve lots of jumping rope. A boxer might complain ‘’When am I ever going to use this? I am never going to jump rope in a match “But jumping rope makes them better boxers, even though the boxers never jump rope while fighting. The mathematics you are learning is much more useful than jumping rope; but even if you never use it in your life yet, it makes you smarter. That is the most important reason to study it.
Step 3: find the reasons don’t just memorize.
Mathematics is not just a long list of random formulas that someone’s invented out of nowhere. Mathematics work because it is true, there is a reason for every step, every rule, and every part of every formula.