In the novel spirit bear by Ben Mikaelsen, the main character is cole, cole is very independent, I know this because on page (3,4) there is a sentence in the passage that said, “He didn't trust anyone who wasn't afraid of him” He is also feeling mad and kind of sad because his parents don't really seem to care about him, as shown in this sentence on page (9) in the passage cole said “He hated his parents his mom acted like a scared barbie doll, always looking good but never fighting back or standing up to someone, his dad a bullheaded drinker with a temper. In the novel spirit bear by Ben Mikaelsen, cole is in a jail debating to set things right and send him to zoo to to appreciate animals as shown in this sentence on page (11) in the story…
O’Grady speaks about a case, Sandusky’s, that happened around 2008 which started to come out in public. Various mothers decided to stand out for their children since they lacked defending themselves, due to their knowledge. Children thought adults did acceptable things, so they did not question the adult. It develops in a child’s mind assuring them that being abuse is something common and natural when it is not. O’Grady states how children do not react well to the abuse they went through. The problem with today’s society is to maintain their families name clean without a stain of mistake. Matthews-Creech offers examples how one should notice the signs and symptoms of an abused child. The authors contribute a help by identifying a victim by the form of the way they act.…
Prior to the twenty-first century, most cases that involved trauma towards a minor were not evaluated close enough to reveal the psychological and social damage children were experiencing. Experts believed children possessed an innate attribute that allowed them recover quickly from oppression or abuse. However, in the novel The Boy who was raised as a Dog, Bruce Perry exemplifies how despairing experiences can psychologically damage a child’s brain and leave permanent damage that guide dysfunctions in behavior and cognition. Perry urges how healing sessions and social interaction with positive role models, are key to help children cope with traumatic experiences that direct their life.…
The immaturity at his age inhibited him from reading social situations outside of himself. He had no apparent consideration for his parent’s feelings, but…
Emotionally children can suffer from trauma. They may begin to lose self worth and don’t believe in themselves so they give up or start to believe what others are saying.…
“The Coldest Heart”, an excerpt from The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog by Dr. Bruce Perry, is a part of story about a boy that was traumatized and committed a brutal crime. Perry was called in to evaluate Leon, the boy, as to deem if there are underlying factors to why he committed the crime. And Perry discovers that Leon does have factors that led to the attack and deaths of two teenage girls. Leon was neglected and left alone as a baby while his brother was loved and taken care of. But as Leon got older, he did not seem to be emotional, to show remorse for his actions or consider consequences.…
Wes Moore was a normal boy who lived in Brooklyn, New York, until his whole life was flipped around when his father died. Wes did not think of his dad as a father, but more like an older brother. He was not afraid to share what he felt with his father; because he knew everything would be alright while his father was around. Wes’s relationship with his father was like a kid that has a teddy bear; he did not want to do anything without him.…
In this world there are many children who are being hurt and there is a lot of ways this could happen. There are multiple forms of child abuse and all of them leave a deep lasting impression on children. Most people believe that all child abuse is physical but mostly it’s emotional (helpguide.org/). Often physical abuse can lead to emotional scarring to that child which could possibly follow them for a good portion of their lives. When a child is abused physically they can heal and do their best to forget about, but after they are emotionally abused it traumatizes them almost to point where they can never forget about it.…
This little boy grew up with an alcoholic mother that couldn’t take care of herself let alone her son. She couldn’t provide for him food, clothes and all the things that a little boy needs and other things like love and caring which is something that every kid wants. After a while, people start noticing that something was wrong with this boy. He would always wear the same clothes, he was always away from people, he would never let anyone near him or close to him to let people know what he was going through. His mother would leave him starving for a long time if he didn’t finish his shores. After being removed from his home, thinking he was going to a better place and imagining he was going to be free from the situation he had been living trough, He was placed in a foster home where he thought he was in paradise, where he had actually found good parents who would love him and take care of him. After a while things started getting bad, when his foster dad left, his mom started drinking more and it got to the point where she lost control and started abusing…
The book mentions the child and maltreatment and how abuse in the childhood can have consequence in adulthood such as inability to trust others, low self-esteem, depression. A large percentage of abused children become abusive in their adult…
“There are several types of child abuse, but the core element that ties them together is the emotional effect on the child. Children need predictability, structure, clear boundaries, and the knowledge that their parents are looking out for their safety. Abused children cannot predict how their parents will act. Their world is an unpredictable, frightening place with no rules. Whether the abuse is a slap, a harsh comment, stony silence, or not knowing if there will be dinner on the table tonight, the end result is a child that feel unsafe, uncared for, and alone.” – Melinda Smith…
In an unhealthy family setting parents could be emotionally or physically abusive to their children or one another, neglect their children, or raise their children in an inhabitable location. Unfortunately, this can negatively affect a child’s development. For example, uninvolved parents show no interest in their children, and display indifference and rejecting behavior. They are emotionally detached from their children and often view their parenting role as merely providing the essentials – food, clothing, shelter (Feldman, 2014, p. 253). Children of uninvolved parents can often feel unloved, unwanted, and they ultimately become emotionally detached like their parents (Feldman, 2014, p. 254). As a result of uninvolved parenting, the cognitive, emotional, and psychology development of these children is significantly impeded. Child abuse can occur in any household, but it is more common in families living in stressful environments such as poverty and single parenthood. Physically abused children are anxious, resistant to control, suffer from headaches more frequently than other children, and also portray signs of developmental delay (Feldman, 2014, p. 255). While it is not always the case, children who suffer from abuse or neglect are predisposed to abuse or neglect their children. Unfortunately, these children have learned that violence is an acceptable form of punishment (Feldman, 2014, p. 255). Abuse is not…
Millions of children in the world have dealt with or seen someone they know deal with abuse. There are many different types of abuse. Sexual abuse, verbal abuse, physical abuse and neglect are all different types of ways a child can be caused harm. In reading of “Breathing Underwater” by Alex Flinn and “A Child Called It” by Dave Pelzer, I found that child abuse was a common theme between the two. The main character in each book was abused or harmed in some type of way by their parent. Child abuse can have many long lasting effects on its victims. The way a person is raised plays a major role on the way they deal with things in their adult life such as problems, relationships, and parenting. In this essay, I will explore the positive and negative effects of child abuse.…
Researchers also have begun to explore why, given similar conditions, some children experience long-term consequences of abuse and neglect while others emerge relatively unscathed. The ability to cope, and even thrive, following a negative experience is often referred to as “resilience.” It is important to note that resilience is not an inherent trait in children but results from a mixture of both risk and protective factors that cause a child’s positive or negative reaction to adverse experiences. A number of protective and promotive factors individually, within a family, or within a community may contribute to an abused or neglected child’s resilience. These include positive attachment, self-esteem, intelligence, emotion regulation, humor, and independence (Shaffer,…
One of the greatest influences of a human’s development is the kind of caregiving that was provided through infancy. Obadina (2013) says, “Early childhood experiences affect the physical composition of the brain, which in turn has an impact on children’s social/emotional development, early learning behaviour, relationships and how they respond to the outside world throughout their lives.” Negative care will cause negative effects in one’s life; likewise, positive care will cause positive effects. Neglectful and abusive parenting styles tend to originate from the caregiver’s childhood or experiences they had while at a young age (Obadina, 2013). For example, if one were to experience sexual abuse as a child from their caregiver, which…