The first choice was made by Romeo to go to the Capulet party. Romeo went there in secret because the Capulet family hates the Montagues. Romeo went anyway saying, “I’ll go along, no such sight to be shown, but
to rejoice in splendor of mine own (1.2.102-103”. To explain, Romeo would go to the party not to search for new love, but to peer at Rosaline’s beauty. Therefore, if Romeo did not go to this party, he would have never fell in love with Juliet. Juliet would marry Paris, like her father wanted her to, and live a fruitful life. Romeo would seek Rosaline’s love and not Juliet’s. Instead, Romeo went to the Capulet party, and he fell instantly in love with Juliet. Their deaths would not have happened if Romeo did not go to the party and meet Juliet.