“When Mr. Pirzada Came to Dine,” “A Real Durwan,” “Mrs. Sen’s,” “The Treatment of Bibi Haldar”
Questions:
“When Mr. Pirzada Came to Dine”
• Why doesn’t Mr. Pirzada ever come back to visit the family?
• Did Mr. Pirzada’s sudden return to Dacca change the speaker’s attitude or feelings towards people she lets into her life?
“A Real Durwan”
• Did Boori Ma really have all the lavish amenities that she said she did?
• Were the Dalas really going to bring back new bedding for Boori Ma?
• Why were the residents so hasty in passing judgment on Boori Ma’s character?
“Mrs. Sen’s”
• What did Mrs. Sen like about the U.S.?
• Why did Eliot lie to his mom about Mrs. Sen’s change in attitude?
“The Treatment of Bibi Haldar”
• Who is the father of Bibi’s child?
• What was Bibi’s condition that could be cured by marriage?
Overall Theme:
“When Mr. Pirzada Came to Dine”
• Maturing is a process in which naivety is replaced by experience. “A Real Durwan”
• People are always searching to improve their lives, but this can cause people to loose their genuine character.
“Mrs. Sen’s”
• It is difficult to assimilate into a new culture without unpleasant consequences.
“The Treatment of Bibi Haldar”
• In tough times, the weaker individual gets blamed for other people’s problems.
Passage: (“Mrs. Sen’s”)
“You must miss her. When I think of you, only a boy, separated from your mother for so much of the day, I an ashamed.”
“I see her at night.”
“When I was your age I was without knowing that one day I would be so far. You are wiser than that, Eliot. You already taste the way things must be” (123).
Brief Interpretation: Many of Mrs. Sen’s feelings about family and growing up are represented in this passage. Furthermore, Lahiri exemplifies Indian family values and the role of a traditional Indian wife. In the first paragraph of the passage, the reader clearly sees how “ashamed” Mrs. Sen is of Eliot’s mother’s