She couldn’t stop thinking about what she could have done to prevent this outcome. More often, she started to blame herself. She came up with ridiculous claims to justify her guilt. Her low- self-esteem affected other areas of her life, especially her social relationships. After two unsuccessful dates she doubted her ability to hold future romantic relationships. In terms of her friendships, she had one trusted confidant who supported her. When the friend started to ‘act aloof’, Janet assumed she was pushing her only friend away. She blamed herself for this pause in the relationship rather than considering other possibilities. The friend may have been busy or she could have been struggling with her own
She couldn’t stop thinking about what she could have done to prevent this outcome. More often, she started to blame herself. She came up with ridiculous claims to justify her guilt. Her low- self-esteem affected other areas of her life, especially her social relationships. After two unsuccessful dates she doubted her ability to hold future romantic relationships. In terms of her friendships, she had one trusted confidant who supported her. When the friend started to ‘act aloof’, Janet assumed she was pushing her only friend away. She blamed herself for this pause in the relationship rather than considering other possibilities. The friend may have been busy or she could have been struggling with her own