John Gray's Views On Gender Differences

Yes, I believe that the information that John Gray has provided is helpful. I believe this information can be helpful outside of heterosexual relationships such as in the workplace as well as with family members. When John Gray talks about men from Mars and women are from Venus, he does not literally mean that human beings are from these planets, but he gives the essential tools for couples who want to develop satisfying relationships with their spouse or partner. However, he is creating an illustration to explain to his audience how a man is supposed to treat a woman and how a woman is supposed to treat a man. Still, opposites attract, and John Gray explains what it means to have a successful relationship. Furthermore, I believe that his
He either completely ignores her when she speaks to him, or he quickly accesses what’s troubling her and then offers a solution to make her feel better. He gets confused “as hell” when she doesn’t appreciate it. However, she just wants empathy, but he thinks she wants solutions. Stop giving unsolicited advice, after listening to a woman don’t expect her to feel better straight-away. Show compassion and listen to your partner. On the flip side, men complain that women are always trying to change them. She thinks she is caring for him while he feels he is being controlled. Instead, he just wants her acceptance. She presumes a man doesn’t know what to do and he can’t do it on his own. Men want to prove their competent by achieving things themselves. You may have noticed by now that John Gray, the author of this book tends to stereotype genders ignoring the fact that people are unique regardless of their gender. Men goes to their caves and women
Men become focused and withdrawn whereas become overwhelmed and emotionally involved. During these times men feel better by solving problems while women feel better by talking about their problems. In times of stress, men will retreat to their caves. He becomes quiet and Mull’s over a solution, and then, gradually comes out of his cave. If he can’t find a solution, he’ll do something to forget his problems like watch TV or play a video game. He needs space. Women on the other hand, feel better by talking about their problems. She wants to express herself and feel understood before finding solutions. A woman will appreciate a man if he truly