I believe in living beyond your imperfections. What that simply means is that even if you don’t have the “coolest” clothes or hate the way you look you should just learn that this is you, you are an individual and don’t have to be like everyone else. In high school you hear girls complaining about how their hair isn’t like their friends or how others have better things then thy do. But they should learn that it’s not fun being like someone else, you have to stand out from the crowd not blend in.
This may seem like a contradiction on my part since I follow the latest trends, sometimes people follow a trend just to fit in and it’s not because they are comfortable or they like it. What you wear defines who you are. Are you someone who buys your originality from others? Or are you the ones that create the trend? We are all unique in our own way. It’s the difference that makes us beautiful. Be different it’s the new look in.
Life’s biggest challenge for many individuals is not judging people. It’s a task we all do unintentionally but I don’t think it’s always useful to us. We look down on others, as if we are so much better … and that creates division between people. It almost like a natural instinct. When we see someone dressed in a sloppy manner. Naturally a thought will pass our heads about this person
We see someone, and based on their looks or actions, we pass judgment on them. Not good judgment, either. Usually without even knowing the person. And that’s it — that’s usually the extent of our interaction with that person. We don’t make an effort to get to know the person, or understand them, or see whether our judgment was right or not. We need to learn to accept people for who they are. In order to be accepted by others, we should begin accepting them because no one is flawless.
Instead of judging someone for what he’s done or how he looks, try instead to understand the person. Put yourself in their shoes. You must accept