When Sal’s mother left, Sal didn’t know what to feel right away. She had always relied on her mother to feel sad or happy. Then Sal closed up. She wouldn’t let anyone that wasn’t a friend or family around her. Sal barely even talked to her dad because she was feeling a mix of emotions .…
Just as she found it extremely difficult accepting the fact of her once young boy, growing up into the mature young man he was becoming, she found it hard to cope with the idea of her daughter not being as dependent anymore. In Olds’ forth poem, “First Thanksgiving”, Reminiscing back to the diaper days, she draws memories of her once young daughter, “those nights, I fed her to sleep, week after week, the moon rising and setting, and waxing- whirling, over the months, in a slow blur, around our planet” (10-13). Thinking back to these times, taking care of her daughter, nurturing her, shows there was no similar effect as to her way of being raised, on her daughter. Just as her relationship was strong and compassionate with her son, Olds’ treasured the time she had with her daughter and valued everything that has come into her life at this time. No matter what challenges individuals face in life, the path they choose to take, as an adult can be completely the opposite as to what they knew, as Sharon proceed to…
Experiences in our past build the foundations of who we are and can greatly affect how we react in certain situations. Mrs. Schroeder shows throughout the course of the novella that she struggles with adapting to her new surroundings by consistently building the illusions for herself of a wealthy lifestyle. But why is that? When looking back at her past we see a young girl preoccupied in things such as “call[ing] up the tobacco store” or “Hail a streetcar”, things describing a carefree childhood, one with not many responsibilities. Though this may only seem like a young girl enjoying her youth and therefore harmless, these experiences in childhood coupled with the fact she live in a very wealthy family are the building blocks of who she is. This is because childhood is a time when many people develop key experiences that help define who they are. Many characteristics and habits created in childhood carry on into adulthood and as a result can be very difficult to change. When a person who grew up in a life…
In looking at the actual words of the story Cinderella, even a casual reader is left wondering why her father would allow callous treatment of his child by his new wife and step-daughters. What Schectman brings to light, however, is that every member of the family is engaged in grief, though this isn’t spelled out directly. Anyone who has suffered through a death of a close family member or the loss of a relationship would recognize the behavior exhibited by the step-mother and daughters as being not only understandable, but expected.…
Upon becoming adults, our perceptions of people and relationships differ and change. As a child, we are impressionable, innocent and under the care of our parents, we see people on a shallow level. The poem shows the reader this with its structure; the focus often jumps from the past to the present. The change in relationship with the poets mother is also apparent, she goes from being a mere observer, drawing in the environment around her and mimicking her mother, to being like her, both physically and mentally.…
The narrator, Amanda Coyne, begins her essay from the mother’s perspective. She describes herself visiting her sister in Federal Prison Camp with her nephew. The story is focused on the relationship of separated children and their imprisoned mothers. The narrator describes the mother’s unusual response to their children in regards to the smell of the flowers bouquet. The way that mothers were referring to the smell so significant gives a visualization of a deep longing and separation in their hearts. The common use of anecdotes and juxtaposition in this writing stands out as a useful tool to describe the characters. The use of a brief narrative to describe kids shows a bit of resentment children.…
Godwin opens her short story with an opening sentence that confuses the mood of the parable and confounds the reader. “Once upon a time there was a wife and mother one too many times” (39). Those first four words, the quint-essential opening of every story book fantasy that invokes beautiful imagery of princesses and green forests with colorful gardens and carefree animals and always has a way of overcoming great obstacles to endorse a long and happy life, opens the reader’s mind to a cheerful theme. The next six words present an “ah” moment, eliciting the feeling of comfort and caring that a wife and mother provides. She has extracted emotions of love and adoration that many of us endear with our mothers to passion and intimacy towards our wives. Ms. Godwin has, in the first ten words of her first sentence, devoted the reader to the main character without even mentioning anything about her. We do not know who she is, we do not know where she is, we do not know how she is, but we want to know.…
….could not cut off the sound of my father’s harsh painful, despairing sob.” (lines 178-179). She had never heard her dad cry like that before nor did she considered the weakness of adults, “my mother, who was small and soft, was now the strength of the family; my father who was rock on which the family had been built, was sobbing like the tiniest child” (lines 187-189). After knowing of their difficult situation, Lizabeth wasn’t able to sleep and in the middle of the night returned to Miss Lottie’s flowerbed. There Lizabeth released her anger on the marigolds, trampling and stepping on them. Joey her brother tried stopping her, but she didn’t stop until she sat there next to the damage she created crying and realized it was too late to…
The Main Character in the short story “Marigolds” can most definitely be relatable to in the real world because everyone grows up and matures. In this short story, the main character Lizabeth starts off as an innocent child, But then throughout the story experiences emotional discoveries of guilt, compassion, and remorse when she immensely hurts another person, an elder named Ms. Lottie, emotionally “Of course I could not express the things that I knew about Miss Lottie as I stood there awkward and ashamed.” This relates to life because Everyone starts innocent, then eventually matures as we open up to new and memorable experiences. Similarly, we can relate to Lizabeth at the point in time she fell into confusion and rage, and resorted to destroying…
In the middle of the story, Lizabeth becomes confused when she hears her dad crying. Lizabeth explains, "My mother, who was small and soft, was now the strength of the family; my father, who was the rock on which the family had been built on, was sobbing like the tiniest child,"(56). She finds it very confusing to hear the "rock" of the family cry. Lizabeth is shocked to hear her dad cry and her mom comfort him. Wither…
The traditional outlook on life has dissipated in modern years. Men were usually the ones who worked to support the family and maintained a steady income to make the family financially stable. On the contrary, women were expected to raise the children, prepare meals and keep a tidy house. For most, this was the ideal life style that worked effectively. Throughout Gail Godwin's short story, "A Sorrowful Woman", the character is a component of a troubled family. Furthermore in the short story, "The Story of an Hour" written by Kate Chopin, the protagonist, Mrs. Mallard is notified with information that is life altering. A characters motivation drives a story towards the authors intended theme through the actions taken and emotions that are depicted.…
After reading this passage it helped me reflect on myself. The reason was because I could relate to Tiffany Anderson. I think I could relate to her because my first job was working in a mall at The Limited. I had an exciting job to be a sales associate, and sometimes helped unpack stock for new floor events. Even though I have a son now, I remember the reason why I wanted a job. To have things and to not rely on my parents support. Basically to feel important in the world and go out and hang with my friends. My parents only gave us our needs, for I always knew my wants were only rewarded if I worked for it. Truly there are many people that go through a lot more than I did, at that time in my life. I have been thankful that I had support from my family and still do. I think a soon as Tiffany Anderson received the note, she changed as a person. Even though she may not understood the writing, however she did have some ideas. She mentioned the imagination of a “women, my age but skinny, with sunken eyes and black hair, locked into a blindingly hot factory…
States in the text, the lowest moment of a woman's life was her wedding day. Cut off from her natal family, the young bride was an outsider and the object of deep suspicion in her new husband's household. The only was to earn a place for herself was to have sons.…
In my story, “New Beginnings”, it talks about how Lily, in this case Carrie had a hard life. First of all her dear mother died, she did not have a fatherly figure, and she was bullied in school. Not many people had a true love for her so she ran away. Her father did not pay much attention in how much love he showed her. “I’d been kneeling on grits since I was six, but still I never got used to that powdered-glass feeling beneath my skin. I walked toward the them with those tiny feather steps you expect of a girl in Japan, and lowered myself to the floor, determined not to cry, but the sting was already gathering in my eyes. T. Ray sat in a chair and cleaned his nails with a pocketknife. I swayed from knee to knee, hoping for a second or two of relief, but the pain cut deep into my skin.” (Kidd 24) His ignorance made her felt as if she was not appreciated.…
From this summary it is evident Tina, at 11 years old, has endured severe and potentially lifelong trauma. Tina has grown up without a solid father figure in her life. A man/father-figure is seen as the solid rock or foundation of any family. Historically a man is seen as the provider. He ‘brings home the bacon’ if you will. He attends to any problems and is not only the provider but also the security footing of a family. In the 21 st century women are making huge inroads and the social landscape is changing with regards to a woman providing in equal measure to a family’s disposable income which takes away the pressure from a man to a certain extent. However, a man is still seen as the stronger figure, especially by children. Having not had a solid father…