1. 5 Esteem Builders by Michele Borba
(Given an issue & ask for the causes of low self-esteem / impacts on self-esteem / solutions to raise self-esteem)
The causes of his low self-esteem / impacts / solutions can be analyzed according to the 5 building blocks of selfesteem proposed by Michele Borba.
Elaboration:
In each builders: Definition Description on the issue Give solution (if asked) As Follows Low/Greater sense of
(Builder) Hinder/Contribute to self-esteem
First, one of the esteem builders is Security. By definition, security refers to ease and trust.
People you can rely on & know what is expected in the future (or vice versa) Have a better feeling of comfort and safety (or vice versa)
e.g. More engagement in social / group activities More trustworthy Friends; Family Relationship
Secondly, another esteem builder is Selfhood. By definition, selfhood means self-concept.
Acquire self-knowledge & a feeling of individuality with accurate and realistic self-description
e.g. Assistance to build up a better self-image, like exercise to build up a sharper boy shape; Explore uniqueness & talents
Thirdly, another esteem builder is Affiliation. Affiliation refers to belonging & connectedness.
Feeling approved of, appreciated, and respected by others Sense of belongingness and acceptance, particularly in relationships that are considered important
e.g. Communication skills for making friendships Sense of acceptance; Assistance to integrate into community
Fourthly, another esteem builder is Competence. Competence refers to Feeling of Success.
Being aware of one’s own strengths, being able to accept personal weakness Have a sense of success and accomplishment
e.g. Assistance to find a suitable job; Give positive comments & achievements; engagement in social & charitable activities
Fifthly, last esteem builder is Mission. Mission refers