Epictetus the Stoic suggested a difference between those things that depended on us and those things that do not depend on us. He advocated developing an attitude of regarding the things we couldn’t influence as unimportant. We depend on our impulses, passions, attitudes, opinions, desires, beliefs and judgments - these are things we must improve. Everything that cannot be controlled by us - death, the actions of others, or the past, for example - should leave us indifferent. Through this insight that all the things upon which we have no influence are best neglected, a ‘cool’ attitude
Epictetus the Stoic suggested a difference between those things that depended on us and those things that do not depend on us. He advocated developing an attitude of regarding the things we couldn’t influence as unimportant. We depend on our impulses, passions, attitudes, opinions, desires, beliefs and judgments - these are things we must improve. Everything that cannot be controlled by us - death, the actions of others, or the past, for example - should leave us indifferent. Through this insight that all the things upon which we have no influence are best neglected, a ‘cool’ attitude