The four individuals who shared their online dating stories also have advice so others don’t make the same mistakes as …show more content…
Fergueson recommends being upfront from the get-go. “Be pretty upfront about it. The sooner you can meet the person, the better. I ran into a couple situations where it had been two months of communication and then finally going on a date with them and believing you’re in a committed relationship even though we’d never met in person. That was always odd. Be as honest as you can be with a profile,” Fergueson said. It is easy to bluff online, but doing so creates unforeseeable roadblocks down the road.
Similarly to Fergueson, Morey has been on dating apps for a few years with minimal luck.
Morey advises being supportive of individuals that choose to use dating apps. “The online dating scene is very different for each person, each sexuality. No matter who you are. If someone says they met someone online, be supportive. It’s the thing to do now. Just because they met someone online, it doesn't mean that they lack social skills. It’s just convenient. It’s nice for college students, especially in a town that isn’t meant for college kids. It’s nice to be able to go to Portland and have a reason to go,” Morey …show more content…
This allows individuals the chance to travel and meet people they wouldn’t have had they not joined.
While Morey is still looking, Leslie and Anna can reflect on their experiences with using dating apps together.
Leslie and Anna suggest using the apps without any expectations. “Don’t expect anything. Have fun with it. Be open minded about people,” Algercias said. “If you don’t expect anything, then you’re always surprised with what could happen. Relationships happen when you least expect it,” Rigger said. This outlook can make the process more fun and results in less disappointment if you don’t find the one.
While each individual had their own experience, finding a significant other depends on how much effort, time, and money one puts into their search. Some find their person early on, while it can take more time for others. Go on many dates and enjoy the experience. You never know whom you might