This is the cruel approach to get children to obey, in which the parental figure uses threats and punishment to instill …show more content…
On the other hand, Sara’s approach is quite different in that she tries to identify with Lottie, who was crying about having no mother. Sara tells Lottie that she does not have her mother either. Then, by distracting Lottie with colorful and happy images of heaven, Sara employs a vastly different technique, one that identifies more with kindness and thoughtfulness without any sort of threat or fear. The book explains, “A new idea will stop a crying child like nothing else will” (Burnett 32). Burnett does not give this line to be spoken by Sara or any other character; it is just placed in the text. Here, the author seems to directly be speaking to the adult reader and offering advice on how to address these situations with their children in real life. Also, the statement endorses Sara’s method of not using fear or threats of punishment like Miss Minchin’s method. As a result, Sara has now advanced from being the mother of a doll to being an “adopted mother” of an actual child, which also implies that Sara has won the battle in parenting against Miss Minchin. The fact that Sara succeeded where Miss Minchin failed elevates her “adopted mother” status above that of Miss