Parenting Styles

“Ah, those damn teenagers!”, Many of us have came across this thought at least once in the past by being frustrated with teenagers causing trouble around us. Science says that the troubled behaviours that adolescent youth produces is natural and has legitimate reason. It has been found that throughout development, teen years are a critical time for frontal lobe development that may explain reasons behind the maladaptive adolescent behaviour.
Adolescence is known as the most difficult time period as parent to understand or control their child’s behaviour. During these years, teens take risks, lash out, and sometimes become uncontrollable, leaving parents with anxiety and insecurity. Through recent years researchers have finally come across physical
The adolescent is being introduced to a big new world, and the reality of a more complex life in which they are still learning to cope with. The intent of this position is not to cut the adolescent youth slack and leave them be, rather be more empathetic, supportive, and provide them with a wise knowledge to motivate them to function in more adaptive ways.
The impact of parenting styles on child development is crucial as well as positive or negative long-term effects may arise accordingly. Despite multiple theories of parenting styles, a recognized theory that will be discussed is a specific parenting style determined that comes from Diana Baumrind's Parenting Typology. Baumrind was a developmental and clinical psychologist that conducted extensive home observations of parents’ interactions with their children, and concluded child-rearing styles predicted children’s long-term social, emotional, and cognitive development and functioning.
With a reasonable amount of control over their child’s development, a parent in this context will expect fair maturity levels, obedience and provide guidelines for the child to mature properly. There is open communication between the child and the parent, which allows the child to trust their parent. The parent is consciously open to opinions of the child but also makes sure the child takes into consideration the parents’ perspective as well. An authoritative parent will discipline the child to an extent, and will nurture, accept, love the child, and support the child to be autonomous and independent, despite failure. A study was conducted that looked at family patterns as determinants of adolescent competence, and of types of adolescent substance users. The researchers found that authoritative parents who are highly demanding and highly responsive were remarkably successful in protecting their adolescents from problem drug use, and in generating competence.