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Personal Narrative: A Parent's Life
I had never experienced a feeling of excitement while being deathly unnerved at the same time. As I apprehensively awaited the arrival of my daughter I contemplated all the great times we were sure to have. I was overjoyed, knowing that I would get to be her dad. At the same time, I troubled because everything did not go as planned. Parenthood is an awesome journey. The birth is one of the most memorable parts. It is a beautiful moment to behold the little life that you have helped to create. The circumstances that surrounded my daughter's birth was not the normal birth tale. Her mother went for a regularly scheduled doctor visit where she was told that she had developed pr-eclampsia. They explained to her what it was and gave her a list …show more content…
We did not fully understand the complications that could arise with the diagnosis that was given. Once there, they rushed her to a neighboring hospital and informed that her labor would be induced, immediately. Preeclamsia, had shown up, causing my daughter to be induced prematurely. Even though she would be five weeks early, they assured us that she would be fine developmentally. So within an hours time they begin the process of induction. They tried several ways to induce my daughter over the next two days, all attempts ending unsuccessfully. There was only one thing left to do. An emergency delivery. It was then that the doctors came in and let us know that they were going to rush her in for an emergency c-section; all the attempts at induction had caused the baby to stress. So as they prepared her for the c-section I also had to get prepared for the delivery. As I dressed in a set of scrubs provided by the hospital. I thought about all the things that could possibly go wrong at this point. I was a nervous wreck. The happiest day of my life was here and nothing's going right. I silently prayed that my baby girl would make it into this world safe and …show more content…
It was a thwarting period. We just wanted to take our baby girl home. Finally, she had gained enough weight and was awake more during the day. One day we came to visit and they told us we could take Aujay home. It was such a wonderful day. I was elated at the thought of taking my little princess home. That day was amazing. I smiled from ear to ear as I sat back on the couch at home holding my sweet baby girl Aujay. It was the greatest feeling in the world . In Conclusion, the birth of my daughter was chilling, exciting, frustrating, and yet is one of the greatest times in my life. The birth did not go as planned, thankfully, everything worked out in the end. It was the most awe-inspiring feeling to hold my daughter in my arms, and gaze into her eyes. It is hard to believe that she'll be seven this summer. I enjoy every minute of being her daddy. We have shared so many exceptional moments together already. And I am looking forward to a lifetime of more memories to

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