We all have an urge to revenge on people that do little or big things. For example someone takes your parking spot that you rightfully own or you have been waiting for. Yes we all have this burning sensation in our minds and we go off thinking to ourselves what could I have done to deserve this? and you plot up ideas on how to get the person back. This could also work on siblings, if they take the last chocolate chip cookie from the pantry and you’ve been waiting to eat the cookie every since you came home. Telling on your sibling’s could be a form of revenge and you watch as they are nagged for doing such a little thing. …show more content…
Say someone pushes you by accident at the mall and you end of embarrassing them in public. They did not mean to but you see this as an act of abusive behaviour and you can’t tolerate any of this, so you glare at them and maybe tell them to “shove off” or “be careful next time”. Yes I know for a fact and I do this too, when you wish something bad would happen to that person or karma would come swooping down right on time. One article that I found talks about a father who killed his sons friend over drug death that his son had died from. This article describes how much his father would do on an act of revenge if someone has harmed any of his family members.
Our minds are wild when plotting or even thinking about what he/she might do for revenge. Francis bacon recalls, “This is certain, that a man that studies revenge keeps his own wounds green”, all we care about is what to do next or what should I do so that the person can feel bad for what they did to me. Instead of letting go on whatever the person did to the person who is seeking revenge,
In the end plotting revenge on someone we dislike would only be hurting ourselves and not that person. We are caught up in them that we don’t realize that we took so much time just to find a way to get back at them when this could of resulted in a better