I grew up speaking Spanish as my first language and did not learn English until I entered school so it was and still is normal for me to speak Spanish at home, with my parents and even with some of my friends, but as a young child being told by an adult that you should not speak your language because “this is America, we speak English,” was extremely hard on me. I remember this one time in middle school when a friend and I went out to a restaurant with her mom after school and the couple next to us kept staring at us the whole time while we were eating. My friend’s mom did not speak English very well so she would prefer to speak Spanish to us, making sure that she was understood as well as make us practice our Spanish. To me this was normal and not at all weird, it was something I did on a daily basis, but the couple next to us did not seemed to think that way. They kept taking glances at us, but not the discrete glances you take when you look at someone you’re crushing on and are trying to avoid being caught. They stared at us with a “how dare you?!” look, the only thing they didn’t do was stand up and downright accuse us of being witches. I can still remember their derogatory remarks and hurtful tone directed at us when they were walking out of the
I grew up speaking Spanish as my first language and did not learn English until I entered school so it was and still is normal for me to speak Spanish at home, with my parents and even with some of my friends, but as a young child being told by an adult that you should not speak your language because “this is America, we speak English,” was extremely hard on me. I remember this one time in middle school when a friend and I went out to a restaurant with her mom after school and the couple next to us kept staring at us the whole time while we were eating. My friend’s mom did not speak English very well so she would prefer to speak Spanish to us, making sure that she was understood as well as make us practice our Spanish. To me this was normal and not at all weird, it was something I did on a daily basis, but the couple next to us did not seemed to think that way. They kept taking glances at us, but not the discrete glances you take when you look at someone you’re crushing on and are trying to avoid being caught. They stared at us with a “how dare you?!” look, the only thing they didn’t do was stand up and downright accuse us of being witches. I can still remember their derogatory remarks and hurtful tone directed at us when they were walking out of the