I preferred to be carried by my dad, rather than my mom and there would be times when I was a toddler that I would wait at the front door, counting the hours to pass by to finally be in my daddy’s arms. We were inseparable when he would come home from work. I would help him with his garden in our backyard and pick out the vegetables when he told me it was ready. I wasn’t that typical little girl with the white flowered dresses and pulled back ponytails. I was quite the tomboy that enjoyed spending time outdoors biking and running around with the neighbors. However, because I was not a normal “girl”, as my relatives would call it, I was often discouraged to do the things that I loved. My mom would often tell me to walk like a girl, and act like a girl but I didn’t really understand what she meant. It was this whole controversy about being able to embrace feminism without being criticized. My dad didn’t seem to be bothered, and he enjoyed me being me so that was all that …show more content…
He told me that he rather have me be knowledgeable, then to be completely clueless and possibly get hurt. I loved learning about new tools, I felt good knowing that I would know all of this that my other sisters’ wouldn’t. By the time my dad fixed up my uncle’s house, I already knew how to correctly use and carry tools, such as the hammer, screw driver, and even a nail gun. I also knew why studs were always 16”-on-center in the wall frames in a house. My dad and I shared this passion of building and will always cherish the memories we share when we do projects