Personal Narrative: Make Good Decisions

Make good decisions. Do the right thing, no matter who is watching. Those words have been repeated and instilled in my mind since I was a young child. My parents always harped on doing the right thing, and making good choices, because some decisions made at an early age can follow you into adulthood. Unfortunately, sometimes making a wrong decision only helps you to learn from the mistake. When I was 15 years old, my friend *Alyssa Brown (Pseudonym) was raped. She was my best friend and someone I care deeply about. We played volleyball together on the same team, had breakfast at the diner every Sunday, and watched movies in my basement every weekend. Like any relationship, we had our differences. At that age, many of my friends were maturing at dissimilar rates, and it was confusing to me some of the changes that were happening to their attitudes and opinions. Alyssa had an older sister *Lindsey, who was 19 at the time, and who wasn’t particularly the best behaved; she had been arrested a few times and needless to say didn’t surround herself with the best company. Alyssa couldn’t help who her sister brought around the house, and neither could I—although now I wish I could have.
Intuition is like emotional knowledge because it does not involve conscious reasoning, mostly I would feel something without realizing what that feeling means. The night that I made the wrong judgment to let Alyssa go to the party alone I had a bad feeling about the party, yet I still told her she would be safe. I think that intuition coincides with ethics and knowing the right thing to do versus the wrong thing. I knew that there was going to be under aged drinking, and drugs at the party which is wrong. I think in the future when making judgments, trusting my gut feeling about certain situations will lead me in the right direction. Of course other ways of knowing like emotion, sense perception, and memory. All of the ways of knowing play a tremendous role in making decisions, which is why I should be able to understand and incorporate these aspects into everything I do in