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Personal Narrative: My Brother's Death
When something tragic happens it feels like that’s the end. There is no light at the end of the tunnel. You feel like nothing will ever feel the same. This was the case for me three years ago. I was 14 when my brother passed away due to a massive heart attack. He would have been 17 a month after his death. Growing up in a family with three siblings never got boring. When he died, my two sisters and I didn’t know how to react. What do you do when someone you just saw a few hours ago dies? My brother’s death has definitely shaped me into the person I am today.
In the beginning, I was completely crushed. I did not care about what day it was or when i had last eaten. My house was always filled with people the first two weeks, but eventually everyone

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