According to Steven frost, the energy of relationships can make a huge difference to the feelings of an individual. In the effort to surround yourself with and create positive relationships, the beneficial qualities of taking part in a relationship which identifies as positive can bring wonders to any individual. In my opinion there are several qualities and attributes which contribute to building a positive relationship with others and they will be detailed throughout the remainder of this paper.
Throughout my development of this topic, I have identified the main qualities which I believe build and form the foundations of a positive relationship. These include: positivity, perception, honesty, understanding and mutual respect. I also believe that realistic expectations are vital to development of any relationship; whether it be between partners, friends or family.
Spending time to give compliments, commend ideas, acknowledge achievements and appreciate others forms the epitome of positivity. Positivity in all its forms lightens and takes relationships to the next level. As is evident from the movie Juno, the positivity throughout Juno and Pauly’s relationship turns a potentially disastrous situation into a simple, uncomplicated pregnancy. Even in modern day society, positivity vastly contributes to the development of any positive relationship.
Perception and understanding, relatable in their qualities, distinctly relate to this topic. In our constantly busy world, the art of true listening, understanding and perceiving is a rare but simple gift. Others often forget to stop and really listen to those important to them. I believe that being a good listener and being there for each other has the power to truly transform not only others’ lives but our own. Throughout the bible, Jesus reiterates these qualities and the power of listening is very powerful both in the ancient and modern eras.
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