Pros And Cons Of Parenting

Which Parent Are You?
Are you an Authoritative or Permissive when it comes to parenting your child? In ways they are positive and negative for the child as they are growing up. Each way gives a perspective on situation should be handled; but in most of these cases when a child is told to do something it is hard for them to “Comprehend” how it needs to be done. That is when parenting comes into play and the child when then to receive and retain or to deny and rebel…Even though it is an action a parent can control sometimes how they bring up the child from birth sets them in a distinct path which is hard to get out of.
Each one has positive ways that the children grow from, becoming a better person learning and achieving rewards at each “stage” of discipline. As a Permissive parent your laid back don’t really get involved in the child disciplinary unless it’s necessary but yet would reward over the littlest of actions. On the other side of the token Authoritative parents have what is called “set” ground rules that are supposed to be followed or consequences will be put in to play no matter if not followed at all or followed only partially. Is this right…Or is it wrong? That’s a matter of opinion to each adult, but rewards still come in the same way regardless if they do something good or do
something right for both types of parents which is one of a few things that are the same. The difference that can be bad as they get older the child will see the permissive parent as a “Friend” NOT as a mother or father; while on the other hand the child with the authoritative parent will understand mother and father is always there but, is there to teach them to grow into great adults.
When time goes by the child’s actions will start to set in place meaning they will start know what they can’t and can do, learn to get away with things on the permissive parent side and learn what they should not be doing on the authoritative parent side. Both child as they get older start to regret or resent their parents, begin to “ACT OUT” in what they think is the right thing to do. For example as a Permissive parent as you see them get out of hand you start to land down the rules and because how you treated them they say, “Why do I got to follow now, I didn’t have to when I was younger what’s the difference!”. With the authoritative parent your child responds with not words but actions starts sneaking out of the house, trying drugs sexually active…and why because you put too many “rules” to keep them in doors. How do you respond, what do say? Better yet what happens when authority comes into the picture? As a parent when they come in we can’t do anything, except watch and see what we have done and try to talk to them “straighten” them out.
Each parent has its positive and negatives of parenting some better than others, Nothing is an absolute…nothing will be perfect but, you can always get close with the right guidance and teaching.
In the end a child’s actions is based on how they were brought up from beginning of life, by teaching them right from wrong, good and bad. Always know that in good teaching good deeds will be rewarded but on the other side of the token when bad actions take place consequences will be given in different ways. Permissive and Authoritative Parenting are opposites but in the end have the same consequences towards the end but in desperate needs they will result back to what they were
taught.