Falling in love before the entrance exam of collage is considered wrong as far as most of the parents’ concerned. Students are even seriously condemned if they are found having a relationship with an opposite sex. Being in love takes students’ mind off their studying, which is reckoned a main task of their schooling time. In addition, teachers claim that building and maintaining a relationship require a great deal of effort and time, which do a greater damage to students’ study progress. Furthermore, love easily blindfolds people, even sensible ones, let alone the teenagers who are young and literally make of hormone. Sex before marriage and pregnancy is quite ubiquitous among teens in the developed countries. And it is evident that a relationship with a boy or girl friend may to some extent disrupt relationships with your classmates and friends and much worse set a barrier between you and others. Narrow social circles could at some point reduces one’s odds to success in the future. Failing to make new friends, spending less time with friends and parent, may push one to pay a lot extra attention to one’s partner, which create an intimacy that may in the end tires and chokes the couple. All in all puppy love is something that parents consider wronged and they tend to try every means to highlight the dreadful effect it may have.
These opinion listed above are actually quite stereotyped, and most of so-called accusations can be denied to some extend by some examples and proper argument. Of course, one will make a fool out of himself trying to state that puppy love only has advantage or vice versa. Like any other controversial issues, it is a double edges sword that everyone can argue with his own reasons. What actually worries parents is that they are not confident about themselves being capable of guiding their child properly so that they nip it in the bud anyway. Yet I claim that one can learn a great deal from puppy love