“Boys will be boys,” a commonplace phrase that constitutes a diffusion of responsibility away from the male perpetrators of aggressive attitudes and behaviors, supports a dangerous rhetoric that a young male transitioning into adulthood will perform acts of aggression, display a detached and uncaring disposition, and develop attitudes of intense homophobia and sexism as part of a biological norm of that stage of adolescence, a stage of life comprising a larger and larger part of young man’s life, ages 16-29. Kimmel challenges this rhetoric, arguing that there is an underlying culture of entitlement (as the gaining of equality by other groups such as women and minorities are perceived as a threat to privileges that the white man “deserves,” a zero-sum game of status) that is supported by a culture of silence (of refusing to bear witness to other men’s transgressions, which is perceived as support) and a culture of protection (in which communities shield “their” guys from the harsh implications and accountability) which allows these behaviors and attitudes to persist. Kimmel argues that…
Anna Paquin is presently married to a man and has children; Larry King asks the young actress if she is a “non practicing bisexual (561).” This is a clear example of how someone’s sexuality isn’t taken seriously if you are not heterosexual. Being bisexual is looked at as a fad, just having fun because you cannot decide if you like men or women. Amy then mentions that being bisexual isn’t a button you can turn on and off, or a naughty habit that goes away once you find the right man (561). It is clear that television and film are not giving bisexual individuals the right exposure; considering all of the stereotypical roles given. Bisexuals are mostly portrayed as promiscuous, while female bisexuality is always shown to excite and satisfy men. This shows exactly why Larry King thought it was appropriate to ask Anna Paquin such a…
In chapter 1 of “Dude You’re A Fag: Masculinity and Sexuality in High School,” the author mentions that “one of the ways a queer theory approach can bring studies of masculinity in line with other feminist theorizing is to uncouple the male body from definitions of masculinity.” What he means by “uncouple the male body from definitions of masculinity” is that the word male is normally associated with masculinity and in order to fully understand these theories we must stop genderizing the word masculinity. Instead, we must see masculinity as an organizing principle of social life (Pascue). It is important to decu…
Connell maps out a hierarchal structure of social relations to organize/define masculinity: hegemonic/subordinate/complicit/marginalized. How accurately do these tiers reflect masculinity as it is made manifest today? In politics? Sexual(ity) relations? Mass media/popular culture? For instance, is “gayness in patriarchal ideology” always to be considered what is “expelled from hegemonic masculinity”…
Over the years there have been several new athletes ready to give a shot at the X-Games competition. Sure these are great athletes but what everyone wants to see is a new style. Who knew that Shaun White would be perfect for the job?…
Masculinity is a theme that has been addressed in society for many years the issue of masculinity is expressed in the texts All new people and Streetcar named desire, the men are seen as brutal forces of society but from different perspectives; One of the 1950’s post war reality and the other reflects the modern freedoms .In the play A Streetcar named Desire, masculinity means aggression, control, physical dominance, and even violence. Accompanying these traits is a general lack of refinement, manners, and sensitivity. One point of view expressed in the play is that this sort of brute masculinity is primitive and sub-human another is that it is attractive and sexually appealing, alternatively freedom and liberalism has left the men in All New People as victims of society, and it has left them without strong role models, power, community, faith or rules.…
This is a divisive strategy that aims to produce a consumable queer, fit for a mainstream audience. Subsequently, this strategy risks straight culture subsuming both lesbians and the queer community (Moody 2011). To subsume lesbian and queer culture would erode the common political identity that allows for community organization against heterosexism. Like bell hooks (1992) contends, “Communities of resistance are replaced by communities of consumption” (33). Effectively, the apolitical representation of lesbianism obliterates the movement’s historical allegiance to working class culture, butches, interracial socializing and feminism (Moody 2011). Both productions exemplify this shift from queer sexuality to homonomative-domestic lesbian, although The Kids Are All Right epitomizes this because it fails to acknowledge the oppressive culture and diverse identities. Homonormative representations normalized the broader lesbian community and foster…
Exploring the construction of hegemonic masculinity, we go through a contradicting state of the definition of manhood. Although contradictions appear, it is socially adapted and able to reside without conflict. Take manhood as this, “We think of manhood as a transcendent tangible property that each man must manifest in the world” (Kimmel, 1994). Meaning that manhood is merely an idea which is drilled into a man’s head by society, “Gender, we said, was an achieved status” (West and Zimmerman, 2015) in other terms, manhood is a socially agreed upon idealization of how men should act or who they should be. In West and Zimmerman’s “Doing Gender”, Hegemonic masculinity is accomplished by the unavoidable categories of sex and gender and ways we act upon them; collaborating together in a socially constructed standard of how to be.…
By showing why Chiron falls into the hegemonic ideal of a man and concealing his sexual identity and then showing his eventual realization of this, the audience is painted a picture of a man whose personality is severely corrupted by the dominant view of masculinity. As a result, Barry Jenkins succeeds in presenting a heartbreaking yet important argument advocating for changing the status quo of gender and sexuality…
Masculinity and the ideals of manhood are not universal; place and time are factors of masculinity and hegemonic masculinity is no different. According to R.W Connell hegemonic masculinity is the one form of masculinity in society that has the most authority and influence on boys and men of that society. This form of masculinity sits at the top of the masculinity hierarchy and as a result those who attempt conform to hegemonic masculinity not only gain an advantage and privilege over other forms manhood but also over both genders (Connell, 171). However, because hegemonic masculinity is an unattainable ideal, men often go to extremes to confirm their masculinity to themselves and other men in their lives. Using the articles "’Talk About Strenuous…
The American culture embraces masculinity through many aspects of their everyday lives. The way they conduct work in the work place, the principles of teaching young adolescents in school, and the largest factor, the mass medias pervasive involvement. Masculinity is defined by physical capability, financial independence, authoritarian values, and male dominance. These qualities are not completely supported by all men, but a large amount of society do embody these masculine ideals and notions. These notions do not embody the homosexual male community; they have an entirely different perception on what notions capture the essence of masculinity in the U.S society. In the institution of family, a masculine man is the bread winner, the engineer of a home, a strong provider, and a father. In the current U.S society, some of these standards have drastically changed. Many men are no longer the financial provider, but are “househusbands”, a new terminology being used to describe a husband who is a stay at home father while the wife works.…
Financial success and sexual prowess determines man masculinity. Society views men that has a lot of money, can provide for his family successfully, and has a lot of sex partners as masculine. If a man lacks these particular factors, he would think his masculinity is being threatened. The ideal man is represented through television, where African American men are portrayed to be tough, strong and a “player” and athletes such as Wilt Chamberlain who is looked at as masculine all because he has money and more importantly, he slept with almost 20,000 different women. Therefore, the young men and women who watches television and…
The punishment does not always fit the crime. Zero tolerance was initially defined as a policy that enforces automatic suspensions and expulsions in response to weapons, drugs, and violent acts in school. Today these policies have changed to include a range of less serious offenses such as violation of dress code, writing on the desk, and tardiness. Zero tolerance policies began as a way to protect children from potentially violent situations. Over the years, these policies designed to protect are now doing more harm than good. Children are being punished for simply being children. Zero tolerance policies need to be replaced because these harsh policies have resulted in an increasing number of suspensions,…
When someone hears the word “gay” or “queer”, they most often think of the middle class, Caucasian gay male. For my research proposal, I plan on studying what is very often overlooked in queer identity: the struggle of queer identity in the African American gay male. I am interested in studying this because I grew up knowing I was gay in a small, middle class town in rural America. I wish to argue how gay African Americans are restricted by Black stereotypes, gay stereotypes, acceptance with stipulations in the gay community and black community, racism in the gay community, homophobia in the Black community, perceptions of blackness and masculinity attitudes toward homosexuality and their effect on gay Black men living openly, homosexuality and religion (the black church), and media perceptions of Black homosexuality. The majority of the black community stated they wished to live restriction free lives. They are not able to fully be themselves in their daily lives and often have to assimilate to be accepted.…
In recent years, the portrayal of LGBTQA folks on TV has increased. Shows like Glee and Orange is the New Black are inclusive of LGBTQA characters, fulfilling a social demand for representation. The way that canonically LGBTQA characters and their relationships are portrayed is a vastly complicated topic, that I will not be touching on. Instead, I'm going to focus on a different issue that comes up in discussions about LGBTQA representation in the media, queer-baiting.…