Relationships In The Scarlet Letter
Scarlet Letter Paper: Relationships
Love – the language of the world. Everyone feels love at least once in their lifetime and yet it is something that can’t be explained rationally; it can only be accepted. Love is like ocean waves; being calm and serene at a moment, and without warning becoming violent. Love has no formal meaning because everyone experiences it differently, what one person thinks is love, another may think is infatuation or vice versa. In the end, obtaining love seems to be the main underlying aspiration that we all strive for in our lifetimes. It is the one thing that we undauntedly all, as humans, have in common.
What is Love (baby don’t hurt me)? I know this question exists in each human being's mind including myself. …show more content…
A whole which is very dark and an exceptionally hard place to get out of. It is almost like you’re a rat in a sewer where once you get accustomed to your surroundings you never want to leave. Just like Chillingworth did in the Scarlet letter even though Hester asked him to give up being a fiend, he didn’t listen and died a lonely old fool. However, it was not Chillingworth’s fault that Hester fell in love with someone else in his absence, though it was his fault for never allowing himself to forgive and forget them. Since, he couldn’t forgive them all he could think about was revenge. You see, Chillingworth got accustomed to the hole in his heart, the place that was once filled with love and compassion has no become a sewer were he stayed for the rest of his …show more content…
In order for there to be love there has trust. Those who don’t trust their partners can never have love for real. In the “Scarlet Letter” Dimmesdale wasn’t truthful about what he did and because of that he could never be with Hester the women he loved. The secret of trusting wisely is to forget about trust. Your brain won’t let you sustain it as long as you’re hurt anyway, as most defenses are unconscious and run almost exclusively on autopilot. In other words, you’ll be able to trust for a little while, but it will, in short order, fall apart. And each time that trust falls apart, it becomes harder to rebuild.
In addition, judging a book by its cover may be superficial, but in this case, it could just be a biological instinct to find the best mate in survival of the fittest. Though looks aren’t everything in a relationship. People have to possess a deeper connection. Judging a book by its cover can sometimes lead you to an unpleasant book. The same is true with love. Just because you are attracted to someone physically doesn’t mean that you have found love. Trust me, if you love with your eyes instead of your heart going to get a big bite in the
Love – the language of the world. Everyone feels love at least once in their lifetime and yet it is something that can’t be explained rationally; it can only be accepted. Love is like ocean waves; being calm and serene at a moment, and without warning becoming violent. Love has no formal meaning because everyone experiences it differently, what one person thinks is love, another may think is infatuation or vice versa. In the end, obtaining love seems to be the main underlying aspiration that we all strive for in our lifetimes. It is the one thing that we undauntedly all, as humans, have in common.
What is Love (baby don’t hurt me)? I know this question exists in each human being's mind including myself. …show more content…
A whole which is very dark and an exceptionally hard place to get out of. It is almost like you’re a rat in a sewer where once you get accustomed to your surroundings you never want to leave. Just like Chillingworth did in the Scarlet letter even though Hester asked him to give up being a fiend, he didn’t listen and died a lonely old fool. However, it was not Chillingworth’s fault that Hester fell in love with someone else in his absence, though it was his fault for never allowing himself to forgive and forget them. Since, he couldn’t forgive them all he could think about was revenge. You see, Chillingworth got accustomed to the hole in his heart, the place that was once filled with love and compassion has no become a sewer were he stayed for the rest of his …show more content…
In order for there to be love there has trust. Those who don’t trust their partners can never have love for real. In the “Scarlet Letter” Dimmesdale wasn’t truthful about what he did and because of that he could never be with Hester the women he loved. The secret of trusting wisely is to forget about trust. Your brain won’t let you sustain it as long as you’re hurt anyway, as most defenses are unconscious and run almost exclusively on autopilot. In other words, you’ll be able to trust for a little while, but it will, in short order, fall apart. And each time that trust falls apart, it becomes harder to rebuild.
In addition, judging a book by its cover may be superficial, but in this case, it could just be a biological instinct to find the best mate in survival of the fittest. Though looks aren’t everything in a relationship. People have to possess a deeper connection. Judging a book by its cover can sometimes lead you to an unpleasant book. The same is true with love. Just because you are attracted to someone physically doesn’t mean that you have found love. Trust me, if you love with your eyes instead of your heart going to get a big bite in the