My name is Monica I am the Membership Advisor at Quail Lakes. I see that you have been talk to Amanda and that you were interested in a being a member and possibly adding you husband and two kids. I just wanted to touch base with you to see if you were still interested in being a member with us. If so please give me a call at you earliest convince at…
The two rituals I picked are the western practice known as a funeral and the traditional practice known as the Nukil, or Hemmukuwin that is a mourning ceremony practiced by the Cahuilla, a Californian Native American tribe. In my culture, an experience of a funeral consists of first a wake the night before the service where close family and friends can look at the body and tell stories about experiences with the deceased. Then the next morning is the service that is pretty similar to a Christian church service where we praise God and sing while honoring the deceased. After that we go to the cemetery and proceed with the actual burial which is the sort of climax of the funeral process where all final emotions are being let out. After this is…
St. Francis of Assisi was one of the most famous of saints. So popular, the current pope, Pope Francis chose this as his catholic name – the patron saint of animals.…
Funeral services in the 1990’s are more complex that they have ever been before. The modern funeral director must not only be aware of and comply with their own state and local rules and regulations, but also with the Federal Trade Commission’s Funeral Rule and a variety of Occupational Safety and Health Act (OSHA) rules. Add to this the fact that the so-called “traditional funeral” has become less and less traditional. While the religious aspects still play a major role in the majority of the funerals held in the United States, changes in the attitude of the clergy and the families, changes in funeral home structuring and pricing, and changes in the funeral home facilities and services that they render have caused a great change in the funeral itself. There are several religions that practice funeral rites, however, in this paper I will attempt to compare/contrast the Roman Catholic Funeral Rite vs. the Jewish Funeral Rite.…
For a weekend getaway full of relaxation and serenity, visit Papallacta. This small town located in the heart of the Andes Mountains has many activities to soothe the soul and satisfy nature lovers, and is easily accessible from Quito. From the city's Terminal Terrestre Cumandá, buses depart roughly every 20 minutes and can bring you to Papallacta within about 2 hours.…
This article compares our Western burial traditions to the Berawan’s. The Berawan think that our ritual is evil and because we embalm our dead so they can be shown in coffins, they said that we trap our dead in a suspended condition between life and death. The Berawan see America as a land with the potential for millions of zombies. Metcalf’s comparison is so thoroughly describes the Berawan’s practices in but in my ethnocentric world, it is easy to see why their beliefs are rejected as illogical. Berawan funerary customs are more natural than the American treatment of the dead, but are still way for exotic. The most exotic to me is that after storing the dead for several months some people would consume liquid decomposition mixed with rice.…
In this film there were several social norms that we had seen that we were unfamiliar with. For example, when the film began Raimunda, Paula, and Sole are all meeting at their mother’s tomb stone to clean it. In their culture doing this is normal. In the film there were several families doing the same thing. When a loved one has passed away they make sure that their tomb stones are clean/polished and well taken care of. It is kind of like paying their respects. In the United States we personally don’t go out to clean the tombs of our loved ones. We expect the others to do it for us. We don’t think of it as a responsibility that we need to do. We just visit the tomb bring flowers to set next to them.…
This paper will look at existing organizations and programs that provide parent home visits for infant and child loss in culturally diverse populated areas in the United States. These programs generally do not encompass grief recovery for the Native American community. As social workers and providers of these services, it is important to understand this cultural group, know their rituals and beliefs surrounding death and the burial of their dead, and to be open to changes that might be needed within their programs to address the needs of the Native American community. This paper will address the Native American beliefs on death, their rituals after death, the funeral process, and suggestions to organizations for modifications to accommodate this community.…
Imagine your dead relative in the palm of your hands, or taking the dead relative out with your family, as if it was a normal day. It may seem uncommon to hear this, but these are few types’ funerals that are practices from different cultures. Death is a way of life, and everything living will die. Over centuries many cultures have a different way of remembering the dead. Funerals play significant role of allowing people to remember the dead, and letting the dead move on. Let’s take a journey to 10 different countries; Indonesia, New Orleans, South Korean, Philippines, Mongolia, United States, Balinese, Madagascar, Australia, and Ghana to see how funeral traditions are practice among the cultures.…
Death is universal, and every culture has its own ways of coping with it. Death rituals and grief can range from how someone is laid to rest to how he/she is memorialized. Every culture and religion has a unique way of burying, grieving and memorializing their dearly departed. Personally, the most interesting of rituals come from Native Americans, Tibetan Buddhist, Malagasy people from Madagascar, and Australian aboriginal mortuary rites.…
To see countless skulls, graves, and hearing music may be an odd way to imagine a funeral for some. However, for the people of Latin America, this is beautiful portrayal and magnificent celebration of life after death. A large feast is served, graves are decorated, and altars are set up as colorful vigils. In Mexico, this is called the Day of the Dead or Dia de Muertos. This is the Mexican tradition of celebrating the afterlife and inviting the deceased spirits of loved ones back home. Many people today view death as a tragic and heartbreaking experience, but the people of Central America are elated to see their family members who have passed once again. This paper will discuss how the use of food, embellished altars, and music show commemoration…
Today, if someone were to die in a Western household, the general reaction would be to get the body to a morgue as quickly humanly possible, as to keep the unsightly relic of an ended human life out of sight and mind, or to keep any “death diseases” away from the living. Generally, hugs and kisses are not shared with the deceased, and preparation of the body for a funeral is definitely out of the hands of most Western families. When the funeral does commence, the mood is, more often than not, somber and dark. It’s as if individuals are being taught from an early age that death is the worst possible fate one can meet, and that the dead must be sterilized and not handled. Meanwhile in other societies around the world, death is treated as a celebration of one’s success in life. In Madagascar, a ritual known as famadihana includes a group dance after the exhumation of the deceased. The remains are wrapped in fine silk, sprayed with wine or perfume and carried overhead during festivities (April Holloway). It is not to say that others should be quite so intimate with their dead, however, perhaps something could be taken from such a display of love and joy, and be applied to the current stiff and grief filled ceremonies sometimes seen…
There are many Native American tribes but I decided to write on the Apaches and their approach to death and how they went about burying their dead. I didn’t realize that it would be so hard to find information and just how much of a secret their death rituals were. I did find out that if a squaw dies, they don’t honor her death. If it was a woman they considered her death of no account. They bury their dead in the cover of the night and do not let outsiders view the dead nor do they morn in public. I was able to find out that when an Apache died, they would bury them with all their possessions and anything they may have touched recently. This started way back and it was because of the smallpox outbreak that they started this custom that is still practiced today. They bury the deceased and lay rocks over their body so that the wolves or other animals can’t dig up their body and desecrate the remains. I find it very interesting that they are so private with the way that they perform their rituals. Their beliefs are very mythological. They go to great lengths to ensure that the dead do not come back and try to lure the living to go with them although I could not find out what the lengths they took were. They believe that upon death a soul remains close to home for four days; if a proper funeral and burial is held, the soul is freed to make its way to the Land of Ever Summer, as some call it. Only one or two relatives would prepare the corpse while others went into mourning. At the graveside the deceased horse would be killed. The burial party would leave the grave site by a different rout in which they came, being careful not to look back or discussing the location of the grave with others when they returned. The burial party would discard their clothes and wash themselves thoroughly to avoid the vengeful, evil nature of the ghost of the deceased from causing harm to the mourners. The topic…
Mexico has a distinguished culture of traditions, which have been in existence for more than three thousand years. As a direct consequence of colonisation, over time Mexico’s rich past of lost civilisations has amalgamated with European traditions and religion. In particular, distinct connections can be made between modern Mexican and pre-Hispanic Mayan death customs. As a consequence of this historical cycle of colonialism and domination, incredibly unique traditions are observable in Mexico today; notably, overall beliefs concerning death, burial practices and the Day of the Dead holiday. Latin American Folklorist, Gabriel Moedano Navarro said “although the cult of death is a trait that appears among every people, there is nowhere in the…
There are many rituals in the Buddhist culture, but there was one that caught my attention. Death rituals are considered the most important ritual in the Buddhist culture. Many of the rituals are lost but many are still practiced today. When a person passes on, they would need to reach nirvana to continue their cycle of life. Concentrated in Cambodia, Laos, and Thailand, this derived Buddhist culture believes that a person might not have reached the intended enlightenment to carry on the cycle and someone from their immediate family can help them reach nirvana. To do so, they must become a monk and special requirements are made to ensure the family member will help the passing of nirvana correctly. I will explore the delicate steps into becoming a monk and sharing my personal experience of giving offerings to a deceased family member.…