If someone in the community gets a scratch on there knee from a fall, yes they will feel pain, but pain isn't a deep or true emotion. People in the community have no concept on what emotion really is. When Jonas is Receiver he experiences the feeling of Love through a memory. From that memory, Jonas starts to get a good conception on what love truly is. That night Jonas asked his parents if they loved him. His parents said love is a "generalized word", that the word is "meaningless that it's become almost obsolete". His parents also said that instead of asking the question of "Do you love me?" you should ask "Do you enjoy me?" or "Do you take pride in my accomplishments?" (129). This specific evidence shows the reader that his parents have no true grasp on what love means. To us, they may even seem heartless.
Therefore, sameness was a negative choice for the community due to the lack of freedoms that they have received. Although there are positive aspects to sameness, the negative ones overwhelm them. When you compare our world to Joan's world, you will see how much sameness really did affect the