Freud theorizes that humans repress the desire to please themselves in order to fulfill their needs. For instance, in order to provide ourselves with food and shelter, we must repress our urges and work for hours each day. Of course working is not something that is pleasurable, but we cannot avoid it as it is the only way to attain pleasure like food and a comfortable home. Society has also created mechanisms that restrain our desires and make them forbidden, such as religion. In many religions, it is forbidden to have premarital sex, to avoid problems with pregnancy, money, family values etc. This restriction was made as if the pain of abstinence is far less painful than the pain of these problems, and enduring is much easier. The sources of pleasure become instruments of pain that Civilization has unintentionally created for the
Freud theorizes that humans repress the desire to please themselves in order to fulfill their needs. For instance, in order to provide ourselves with food and shelter, we must repress our urges and work for hours each day. Of course working is not something that is pleasurable, but we cannot avoid it as it is the only way to attain pleasure like food and a comfortable home. Society has also created mechanisms that restrain our desires and make them forbidden, such as religion. In many religions, it is forbidden to have premarital sex, to avoid problems with pregnancy, money, family values etc. This restriction was made as if the pain of abstinence is far less painful than the pain of these problems, and enduring is much easier. The sources of pleasure become instruments of pain that Civilization has unintentionally created for the