Sigmund Freud's Theory Of The Chain Of Care Of Women In The United States

As a nanny who is an American citizen I get to go to home after work, see my family whenever I wish to, go see my other half of my family in Canada and Guatemala once a year, and see my friends that grew up with during the weekend. I wish that this was true for all nannies that work around the world. The chain of care is when a person, more likely a women, from a developing country comes to a developed country to take care of a family’s elderly or their children and do their housekeeping at the same time. According to Arlie Hochschil, a sociology professor, claims that more than half of the legal migrants that come to the United State are women. These women that come to the States and to other developed counties leave children and their
Since the nanny can’t give all her love to raising her own child she transfers that love into raising the child that she is getting played to take care for. Arlie Hochschil uses Sigmund Freud's theory of displacement, which is the theory that a person’s emotions can be redirected from one person to another. In this kind of situation it can be like buying love or borrowing it like Arlie Hochschil says. The child that the nanny is taking care of is getting the love that is being taken away from her own
My husband was abusive. I couldn't even think about my children, the only thing I could think about was the opportunity to escape my situation. If my husband was not going to kill me, I was probably going to kill him... . He always beat me up and my parents wanted me to leave him for a long time. I left my children with my sister... . In the plane ... I felt like a bird whose cage had been locked for many years... . I felt free... . Deep inside, I felt homesick for my children but I also felt free for being able to escape the most dire problem that was slowly killing me.
Alissa Quart a writer for Pulitzer Center on Crisis Reporting writes about a mother who had to leave her son at home to come and work in the United States in order to be able to support her own mother and son. Many of these women that decide to work in a developed country leave their children for many years at a time. A mother could leave her child when he is two years old and go back when he is in his teens. Here are what some internatinal nanniesy have said about living thier children: Vicky a mother that left her two year old son said the he