Though my parents were proud of my accomplishment, my father still perceived me as a boy, despite the fact that I was almost twenty-three years old, at the time. Approximately a year later I was deployed overseas for Operation Enduring Freedom and was fighting for my country, in the Horn of Africa. At the time of my deployment, I often pondered about my family, the valuable time that I wasted and finishing up education, in Psychology. After returning home from war, over a year later, my influences of industry encouraged me to continue my schooling, which left my father in shock. Though I did not return to FSU, I attended Miami-Dade College, where I received my Associate’s Degree in Psychology, at the age of twenty-six. In conjunction with achieving this milestone I was also Honorably Discharged from the United States Marine Corps, as veteran with fourteen medals and a Meritorious Mast, for my exemplary efforts. I remember my father crying, as he saw my accomplishments and remember him informing me that he now considered me a man. This non-normative event was significant to my development because it was the first time I had really impress my father, which was no easy task. This impacted me psychologically because it was the first time that I ever felt truly accepted as well as respected by father. His perception of me influenced my identity development by allowing me to unequivocally perceive myself as a man as well. I was cognizant of the fact that from my father’s perspective age did not make a male a man but that his actions defined the acquisition of this title (Broderick & Blewitt,
Though my parents were proud of my accomplishment, my father still perceived me as a boy, despite the fact that I was almost twenty-three years old, at the time. Approximately a year later I was deployed overseas for Operation Enduring Freedom and was fighting for my country, in the Horn of Africa. At the time of my deployment, I often pondered about my family, the valuable time that I wasted and finishing up education, in Psychology. After returning home from war, over a year later, my influences of industry encouraged me to continue my schooling, which left my father in shock. Though I did not return to FSU, I attended Miami-Dade College, where I received my Associate’s Degree in Psychology, at the age of twenty-six. In conjunction with achieving this milestone I was also Honorably Discharged from the United States Marine Corps, as veteran with fourteen medals and a Meritorious Mast, for my exemplary efforts. I remember my father crying, as he saw my accomplishments and remember him informing me that he now considered me a man. This non-normative event was significant to my development because it was the first time I had really impress my father, which was no easy task. This impacted me psychologically because it was the first time that I ever felt truly accepted as well as respected by father. His perception of me influenced my identity development by allowing me to unequivocally perceive myself as a man as well. I was cognizant of the fact that from my father’s perspective age did not make a male a man but that his actions defined the acquisition of this title (Broderick & Blewitt,