When placed in specific situations, there is a process in which people will attempt to make sense of others, themselves and relationships and social interactions; that process is called social cognition. It is said that the way in which someone delivers you a message can change your outlook on the situation completely. If someone proposed a new job opportunity for you and said it was the ideal match for you, you may immediately interpret it as a stress free job with great work life balance. Where as if they delivered the message by saying they have a hectic job for you other thoughts may enter your mind like stressful positions and long hours (Kowalski & Westen, 2005).
First impressions last a lifetime. A first impression is the initial representation people gather when meeting someone for the first time. It is said that so long as you act with confidence, people will typically find you as a confident person. Research has showed that those people who are attractive have a better chance at a good first impression versus someone who is unattractive. Attractiveness usually runs with parallel thoughts of a person being kind, good hearted and nice. What first comes to mind when someone sees an attractive person is that they must be the whole package so they instantly assume that this person has all great qualities. It is seen through
References: Kowalski, R., & Westen, D. (2005). Chapter 17 Social Cognitiom . In R. Kowalski, & D. Westen, Psychology 4th edition (p. 103). Hobokon: John Wiley and Sons, Inc.