Nicole L. Whitsey
ENG112
Mrs. Julie Pal-Agrawal
July 30, 2011
In the article “Divorce in Rate America” the Author gives the rates of first, second and third time divorcees. The author states that the frequently reported divorce rate of 50% is incorrect. Although it is close, unfortunately the rate is higher than what is actually reported. In this article the author notes a projected trend that “40 or possibly even 50 percent of marriages will end in divorce if the current trend continues” (The Daily Seven- Divorce Rate in America - 2010). I do not agree with the authors reasoning as to why divorces occur. I’m not one that believes divorce fixes problems. I believe it only temporarily rids problems that surface in the future. Many believe individuals lack the commitments, responsibilities, morals, ethics and values that are needed to maintain a healthy relationship but I believe counseling and encouragement from one another can correct this problem.
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second or third is at a growing rate. The author includes a snippet from the Enrichment Journal that states “ the divorce rate for 1st time marriages is 41%, 2nd time marriages is 60% & for 3rd time marriages 73%”. Granted that divorce seems to be deemed as the cure-all for failing marriages, it is this fallacy that destroys lives, and cripples society. Moreover I believe one or both divorcees take or develop the same problems to the next relationship which is a formula for another divorce which in return increases the growing rates. So many couples seek divorce before trying to seek help to prevent the divorce. The trend of divorce is ubiquitous & I do not agree with the idea of divorce until all avenues have been exalted, such as individual/couples counseling to bring a different approach to handling the problems the couple may be