Reid does not just stop at the objectifying of black women in rap music; she goes on to argue that black women experience the same kind of treatment by men in their day to day lives. Men often feel their actions of degrading women are justified because they feel the objects of their treatment are the “bad” black women, as opposed to the “good” ones. This idea of good vs. bad limits the black women to two unfair social castes in their own misogynistic societies. The good black women follow the typical “mammy” archetype popularized by Harriet Beecher Stowe in her novel Uncle Tom’s Cabin. In modern context, the mammy figure is an African American woman responsible for cooking, cleaning, and caring for her children as well as her family. In contrast, the “bad” black women are the typical video hos; these are the women who live unchaste lifestyles, or at the very least act like they do. Their willingness to give up respect for themselves give their male counterparts justification in also abandoning all respect for the women.
The subjugation of the women to this black matriarchy leads them to develop diminutive social spheres the author likes to refer to as “safe spaces.”