Jamaica Kincaid’s “Girl” and Eudora Welty’s “A Worn Path” is two fabulous short stories made in the 20th century. It shows how the relationship between young and adult is seen at that moment. There is the mother who mainly gives advice to help her daughter and there is the grandma who traveled a long distance to get help for her grandchild. The relationship’s quality between young and adult are oppositely inverse .The following essay will show the communication, the motivation and the perseveration.…
Getting older can bring new challenges to life. Challenges that most will never fully understand until personally experienced. What we once were able to do gracefully now nrequires assistanvce. Independence is gradually being removed and sometime taken. Acceptance can be extremely difficult to a person who feels there is more left in their tank. Although retirement is enevitable, and exciting and productive life can still be lived if properly planned and resources are used effectively.…
In The Box Man, written and narrated by Barbara Lazear Ascher, she uses the style of diction to compare and contrast the difference between the solitary and loneliness lifestyles. The reveals that “The Box Man” has chosen a solitary life style and lives in solitude, she also gives two more examples such as the lady down the hall, or the lady in the shop. She creates and clear image that the man overcame loneliness and lives a life of solitude become his own friend.…
In "Loneliness" by Laura Cortes, the author paints a picture of a man whose family has grown up and moved on. The poem shows that a man, older and alone in the world, can still hold on to hope for the future.…
His skin still tanned, was lightened after so many years indoors. His cheeks were still rosy with energy and happiness . He had become stronger with age, both in body and in mind. He became the head editor of a nationwide magazine. Although a small company, the magazine it published was read by both adults and youth of all ages. Every day, he rose with the sun in order to manage the next edition of this magazine. Every day he would return home, only to rise again the next day. It was long, monotonous work, but he did not find it so. He always took pleasure in working with his fellow workers, calling them his friends, with them calling the man theirs. He inspired them to be kind, cooperate and join in brotherhood. When he did not work, he found joy in working with children. He taught the same ideals he had learned in his youth- brotherhood, kindness and cooperation. He taught them how to enjoy life while still being responsible. He taught them to be good children, and greater adults. He taught them morals and values, principles and justice. He taught them all that he knew, in order to make the next generation better off. Still, the man did not think himself as important. He had never occupied a position of great leadership. He had never controlled a big business. He had never possessed great wealth. The pictures of him were always happy, always filled with joy. No matter the…
The old man quite clearly drown his despair by getting drunk every night at the small café, “He’s drunk every night,”. Also he obviously is in a lot of despair “Last week he tried to commit suicide”. This text is relevant to our society today because a lot of people live in despair for multiple different reasons. Some people will have lost a significant connection with someone in their lives of they may have a disability and therefore really struggle to make those connections needed to not be lonely. I think that the author portrayed a clear message by having the two waiters share very different opinions on the old man and his loneliness. “A wife would be no good to him…
Although he has been wandering away from home for almost twenty years, the only thing that keeps him alive is the thought of his wife and son that are back at home waiting for him. He embraces his mortality and it becomes the basis of what gives him the strength to withstand all the difficulties he faces.…
Fusi has a powerful determination which is influenced by the elderly citizens in his community. The elderly people reinforce Fusi’s character through their everyday lifestyle. He notices their…
In the first stanza of Disabled the protagonist seems like a bitter elderly man as ‘voices of play and pleasures after day’ sadden him and almost anger him as he resents the youth and their freedom.…
Everyone experiences loneliness in some part of their life and cope with it in many different ways; agreed John Cacioppo, Aubrey Hammack, and Hara Estroff Marano. Each of these writers wrote articles about the battles people face when dealing with loneliness, and how it affects your health. Hammack and Marano’s articles are similar to the story Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck. They reveal how many people can function and go on with their lives easier when they have friends and family that will be there for them no matter what. Even though George and Lennie weren’t family they still had each other and weren’t lonely like Curley’s wife. Many people who are dealing with loneliness don’t know how it affects them. Cacioppo states how loneliness can be bad for your health in many different ways.…
This essay implies to the reader that loneliness isn’t always a vile thing. The author compares somebody who has absolutely nothing in life but enjoys the solitude, to people who roam through life alone, seeking for company—but never find it. The author compares the chosen lifestyle of the box man, to the undesired for loneliness of the victims. The author explains that although one may be poor and alone, it does not mean that one is unhappy. For example, in paragraph 12 it is explained that the mayor has offered him help, but the box man pushes it away. In paragraph 18 it is described how the box man enjoys his dark life. It is portrayed that life is a solo journey and that one may be much more miserable by going through life accompanied than by being a collector of boxes.…
People sitting by themselves at lunch, people who never go out with their so-called friends, and people who avoid association with anyone unless necessary. All of these are examples of individuals who one may try to help because of an automatic assumption that they are lonely and in need of a friend. This assumption is flawed, as their is both chosen and unchosen solitude, as expressed in Barbara Ascher’s essay, “The Box Man,” from her book Playing After Dark. Through the juxtaposition of the homeless man and the two lonesome women, accompanied by an admirative tone used in regard to the homeless man and a tone of sympathy toward the women, Ascher expresses the idea that one’s material standing in society is irrelevant to one’s state of mind…
In this essay the writer reviews not only one, but three books on the same subject, making the reader feel that the writer has researched the subject of aging parents. The writer includes informative quotes from the books to help give the reader some background on the statistics of the aging population. The writer continues to convey her creditability by using good comparisons in the essay so that the reader is able to understand what it is like to have aging parents for some people. For example: “We can at least plan employment breaks around such relative foreseeable as pregnancy, the school year, and holidays. By contrast, ailing seniors trigger crises at random—falls in the bathroom, trips to the emergency room, episodes of wandering and forgetting and getting lost”. Another good example is when the writer used a quote from a Chides Gross: “The daughter track is, by a wide margin, harder than the mommy track, emotionally and practically, because it has no happy ending and such an erratic and unpredictable course.” This is used to help others who don’t have aging parents to fully understand what it means to care for an aging parent. Although she proves she is creditable on the subject of aging ageing parents, she uses tone as an important rhetorical…
about the cold, but the man’s pride gets in the way of his trust toward the old timer. By the man’s…
The story “A Bag of Oranges” by Spiro Athanas tells about a poor family lived in the rotting slum and the boy in this family became a mature person from a childish kid. Because the boy’s father needs to pay his responsibility to his family and the people who he loved, so his rude behavior and act makes his son hate him for a short time. After the boy notice his family’s financial situation, then he realize it’s not easy be an adult to making life run in the society, and you would lose some important things while you are paying responsibility to your family, so he begin understand his father. When the boy know his father hit by a car, all his emotion spew out and make his act like an adult in the end of the story because he take the responsibility from his father. The author wants to tell us the childish boy becomes a mature boy because the boy understands take care of a family need you pay a lot or got misunderstand. He throws all his childish behavior away and tries to take the responsibility to his family and the people who he loved. Sometimes, it’s not easy to be an adult because you need swallow all tough things with no childish emotion.…