Lies are told every day by you, me, and even your close loved ones. Everyone lies at some point in their lives. The simple true is we all lie. While reading the “Ways We Lie” by Ericsson’s it was very clear that lies are being told more than the truth. She explains many different types of lies being told from the smallest of lies to protect the emotional state of others, to the extreme lies being told and merely ignoring the plain facts of lies that cause real pain.…
Stephanie Ericsson author of “The Ways We Lie” was born in 1953 and was raised in San Francisco. The essay “The Way We Lie” was first published in the Utne Reader. Her husband Jim died in 1988 and due to that she kept a journal and later turned it in to a book called “Companion Through the Darkness, Inner Dialogues on Grief”. Her other works include ShameFaced (Hazelden Publications), that is used for the last 25 years in chemical dependency treatment centers. She was also the editor of two books by Stephen Zuckerman: New Clichés for the 21st Century and Doc, What's Up? Stephanie presently lives in Saint Paul, Minnesota.…
In Lying: A Metaphorical Memoir, Lauren Slater described her personal early childhood story and young adulthood experiences of being an epileptic patient. She used significant metaphors in this book which required readers to reconsider what is real and what it the exaggerated part. Slater puts the idea up that she may be making her epileptic illness up. Slater was trying to tell the readers that her abnormal behavior was attributed by her epilepsy. However, in the last chapter of the book readers realized that she may never had epilepsy at all. Throughout her memoir, Slater is using epilepsy as a metaphor to give some facts that she was not able to write exactly, but our readers can find some private truth through the metaphor.…
Stephanie Ericsson is going to explain lying in her article “Ways We Lie” her main point is to show that lying is not only going to hurt you but also others. I agree with Ericsson about all people lie. Ericsson starts off with explaining the white lie which is a lie that you use when you think it is necessary to lie rather than to tell the truth. Sometimes you think a lie is easier for someone to handle rather than the cold hard truth.…
In “The Ways We Lie” by Stephanie Ericsson, she talks about the many different types of lies. She says that we all lie, and we all lie in most of the ways she mentions. In my opinion, I agree with most of what she says. It is true that we all lie in some way, but we might not all lie in the same way. Some people like to use the “lie of omission” while others might to tend towards the “white lie.” While these lies, in my opinion, tend to be the most common, some of her other example of lying are also used widely. “Ignoring the plain facts” is used all over the news and media, and her example of the Church in the 1960s is one of the most famous. This is also an example of irony, because the Church itself was the one “ignoring the plain…
In "The Ways We Lie" by Stephanie Ericsson, Ericsson talks about how lies exist in aspects of our life every single day. She describes the different ways that humans lie and justifies why people doing so. These lies discussed in this article include the white lies, facade lies, lies of omission and lies that focus around stereotypes. White lie is a common way that people lie to others, because the lie would be better than the truth. Sometimes, the truth will cause more damage or dangerous than a simple harmless…
There are many ways that writers use to help us visualize their story. The author of The Treasure of Lemon Brown uses a lot of descriptive and figurative language to make the story real . When he uses phrases such as, ”Never compare your weakness to other people’s strengths. This text is about the history of this little boy trying to play basketball but, his dad doesn’t want him to play, he wants him to study a lot a be a good kid in school but, after a discussion his son goes out for a walk and he founds an old house and he goes in and found a something that is gonna create a lot of drama .” In the story “the treasure of lemon brown” by Walter Dean Myers, the author uses descriptive and figurative language to develop the mood and the characters in the story.…
Storytelling or “lying” was a major part of this culture, and a major part of the novel. The men in Eatonville sit on their porches “playing…
This book is written by an unknown narrator who heard the story from Marlow, which for the most part Marlow himself was eavesdropping on other people’s conversation. The original story is told by someone And that story being told to us. For all we know Marlow, the narrator or both are lying. We can’t trust anyone in this book. As a story gets passed around it changes its meaning and the actual truth. We know that that Marlow has lied before, so why should we trust him now? Marlow himself has told as he has lied, “I'm willing to lie for him. .” and at the end of the book when he told Kurtz’s fiancé that Kurtz’s last word was her name even though his last words were “the horror, the horror!”.…
Realism is a very deep art form that makes a person think about what was happening at…
Realism from 1865 to the present has changed. As authors have moved into a global world, their writing has become less regional and therefore less realistic. Writers today do research instead of writing about what they already know about. As the world has become more global, authors have become more full. To a certain extent, realism is about presenting a limited view because is very much about regionalism. An author can only write realistically about what he/she knows.…
There are many perspectives and definitions on art, an abstract topic. In the world of books, nothing is considered art unless the novel can engage the readers through the author's use of emotions and stylistic syntax. Using Groen's essay “Books Still Win” tragic realism is seen in Joshua Ferris' novel “Then We Came to the End.” Tragic realism is evident in Ferris' novel through the fact there is both good and bad within a person, that life improves with struggles and that sadness is always evident.…
Throughout the ages, we have been constantly deluded by our society. Moreover, even love, relationship, wisdom or happiness could all be just an illusion. The way that people perceive things can be heavily influenced by many outside factors such as the media, entertainment, literature, and so on. In Empire of Illusion, the author Hedges uncovers the truth of how humans’ points of views about media, entertainment, love, relationship, and wisdom has been influence by the surrounding environment. He has shown the values of those aspects are being change by peoples’ point of view. Media and entertainment could have, and have had, a negative impact on the way people think – as a consequence of how the media and such have shaped the world, many people do not believe in love. They believe that the need for relationships and sex can be satisfied easily without ever loving someone. There are also other people who believe that wisdom can be gained by wealth and power rather than intelligence and hard work. Hedges points out this serious issue in his book of Empire of Illusion by targeting the huge unavoidable impact of media, entertainment, porn industry, and prestigious universities.…
Millicent, Jessie, and Stanford were all caught up in a web of lies, whether they were being lied to or they were the ones lying. After trial and error, they all discovered dishonesty does not work out in the end. Telling the truth, no matter how difficult it is, leads to a stronger and more honest relationship rather than a misleading relationship. They discovered that the easy route is not always the best way to go. Telling the truth helped them become better people, family members, and friends. Since they lied, they made people reassess what they knew about each other. Lying leads to confusion.…
In "The Ways We Lie," by Stephanie Ericsson, the author depicts the many ways humans lie and justifies the reasons for doing so. There is the white lie, which is basically telling a harmless untruth instead of a harmful truth. Facades are basically changing your personality while ignoring the plain facts, as the title implies, is a false action done with the intent to deceive. Deflecting is not answering the question at all; it is being up-front about comfortable issues and not revealing the couple of very important issues that changes everything.…