“A need for positive regard from others is a learned need developed in early infancy. Positive regard here means the perception of experiencing oneself as making a positive difference in the experiential field of another (Nelson-Jones 2006)”…
"The quality of putting others before yourself is a great way to build your self-esteem and continue to those who need you at the same time". This quote that was one said by Sonora Roy preaches the importance of caring for others.Being mostly concerned about yourself will make you a narcissist. When we care for others, we usually receive the love from them in return.…
They believe the effort will give them positive recognition. (This is called the “effort-performance” relationship.)…
One does not always bother to do something unless it proves benefits to oneself. The idea of selfishness is…
However as Zamperini points out; “The difference between recognition and attention is self esteem.”(Zamperini 21) Do people seek attention or recognition? The key lies in whether the individual has self esteem, whether or not they feel worthy of positive attention. One can break the detrimental cycle of self loathing “through hard work and accomplishments” (21) as Zamperini notes. Everyone deserves the sense of bliss that accompanies high self-esteem, they just might have to work for…
In reference to the first statement, a man who performs such actions does not deserve recognition.…
In today’s times, a person’s image could mean everything in life and almost everyone tries to fit into the main stream in some form at some point in there life. Though, people often claim to try to be unique and trend setters at some point they all buckle down and try to just fit in and impress. This idea to me goes into the same as for “A Rose for Emily”.…
Many individuals act out of vanity until the situation of things change for the worse for them. For example, an individual named Joe with no health problems may have no interest in contributing to the numerous cancer foundations that search cures for cancer and support those in need who suffer from the illness. He goes on with his everyday life not paying any attention at all and choosing not to donate a single penny in his name to any such organization. That is, until the sequence of events turn for the inferior for him, and Joe finds out that he now suffers from cancer. He may find himself donating more than half of his weekly paycheck and paying much more attention to all the groups and organizations devoted to finding a treatment for cancer and supporting those who live with the illness. Another situation where the circumstances could change such as it did for Joe is as follows. Nick, a wealthy and arrogant business man with a lovely wife and a daughter is only interested in making money and upping his social status with buying the nicest of personal belongs. His best friend Danny is the one responsible for starting a non-profit organization for raising money and awareness for those who suffer from retardation. Danny always tries to persuade Nick into taking time into becoming a part of his organization, and Nick being the self-centered businessman he is, always turns down the offer from his friend. Danny tries and tries again to finally realize he will never change Nick’s mind, until one day that Nick is informed of some horrifying news. His…
Have you ever wondered about what flaws the person you admire have had ? Well I believe that we will benefit from learning about the flaws of the people we admire and respect. This shows that everyone isnt perfect and that even the people that you find amazing isnt that great after all. Everyone is alike and have there flaws at some point of times. Seeing this gives you the sense that everyone is human and make mistakes, have there days, and everyone is equal. So as a conclusion all I am saying is that ones you know that the people you admired have there flaws to, you will see that everyone on earth is human and are equal to you nothing more and nothing less.…
Let’s look at the bigger picture. If we award kids now for participating, we are taking away that sense of working hard to achieve a goal.…
Setting up a reward for donating to charity is not necessarily a bad thing. For instance, it might encourage people to donate more, even when there is no reward associated. In my school, instead of offering grades as a reward, we offer a pizza party, or something similar, and most of the time sends back pictures of the charity receiving the donations, encouraging us to donate more. And even though there is not a reward, some people keep on donating to the same charity just because it is the right thing to do. There is always a reward when donating to charity, maybe it is extra credit, but maybe it is the food feeling gotten when you do what's right.…
I. Attention getter: I believe that if, at the end of it all according to our abilities, we have done something to make others a little happier and something to make ourselves a little happier, that is about the best we can do. To make others less happy is a crime. To make ourselves unhappy is where all crime starts. We must try to contribute joy to the world. That is true no matter what our problems, our health, our circumstances…we must try. I didn’t always know this and I am happy that I lived long enough to find it out.” -Roger Ebert; thyroid cancer survivor…
However, some situations do not require supports from others. Sometimes, when a person does not have support from others, inside of them will motivate him or her to do better, prove others’ wrong or gain respect from others. For example, Naruto, from an anime show, never got any respect from his village. Everyone looked at him as if he’s a demon. He did not…
Helping others and being able to recognize the contributions of others fulfills the esteem needs.…
People should not be more concerned about others, because if you think too much about others you will not think in yourself.…