A great influence to how the Arabs are to be perceived is the woman's husband. She appears to be under the husbands' wing; seizing the values and believes of his and making them her own. Constantly being around people from her own culture, and anything that isn't familiar is to automatically be feared and denied. "The fear born of having people trespass " The sister of the woman's also plays a part in the influence she has succumbed to. Her sisters' prejudice and a disgust towards people who are different from her just adds logs to a burning fire; showing no respect and helping the woman become accustom to treating people who are different horribly. "You made a mistake about the coffee. Let them make it themselves, and don't serve them anything anymore. If they enter the house-you'll never get rid of them".
As the woman became acquainted with the Arabs, her perception changed towards them. She began to look at them not as single, common people, but as strong individuals who are unique and brilliantly diverse in their own way. Shunning the generalization and noticing, as well as taking into account the little details to what makes a person, a person. The political concern became personal after