In this essay the author, Becky Birtha discusses the struggles and hard ships that many gay couples face when they try to adopt children. The big question discussed in this essay was, should same-sex couples have the same right as heterosexual couples when it comes to adopting children. Throughout the essay Birtha points out key facts that disrupt the thought that same-sex couple’s children are more likely to turn out homosexual themselves. She dishevels this by pointing out a study done that shows children of a heterosexual couple is more aggressive and negative when compared to those of a homosexual couple. She ends the essay by pointing out that there are roughly 134,000 children in foster-care in the United States waiting to be adopted. On her final note she applauds the AAP for recognizing that children should grow up with parents that can love and care for them regardless of their sexual orientation.…
There are many enthusiastic homosexual couples that would absolutely love to welcome those who are in need of a stable home, however, prejudice prevents them from being potential parents. While not every heterosexual couple is eligible or chooses to adopt, most homosexuals would be more than happy, if given the opportunity. The world needs to stop discrimination and realize that most gay and lesbian couples possess qualities equivalent to those who are granted adoption rights. Not everyone is seen as an acceptable candidate due to countless countries choosing to declare this illegal as a result from an excessive amount of people believing one's sexuality makes them less qualified. As explained in an article by Shannon Corregan, a couple in Melbourne was rejected a foster child about two years ago for the reason that they did not want homosexuals for parents. Even though it is not always the case, anyone who…
On the other hand I am aware that not every heterosexual home in the world is a stable and a suitable home to raise a child in. In many homes in this world there are children that are beaten, raped, hungry, and also very poorly supported. In those terms and in those cases I do believe that it may be acceptable for a child that are in those conditions to be placed in a home where they will be loved and supported and be loved. I do also agree that a homosexual couple is very capable of loving and providing and taking care of a child. If the child is being beaten and unloved and raped and other extreme conditions I would be supportive and feel that it was okay for a child to be adopted into a homosexual home.…
Gay or lesbian couple never really get the chance to have a family of their own. Usually the only way they get to have a child is through adoption, or artificial insemination. When gays become parents they get to show how much they love and care for their child. (3). Children that grow up in foster care do not get the opportunity to grow up with a family. Children without parents deserve the opportunity to be raised by a gay or lesbian couple just as much as a gay or lesbian couple deserves to become parents. (4). A gay or lesbian couple can give the child a complete family experience that they did not have before. (3). Children that are adopted by a gay or lesbian couple get the opportunity to get the benefits from new parents both in health and…
Society has a image of a “perfect” family that includes a father and a mother of opposite sex. Today, more and more gay couples are becoming parents. According to LGBT adoption “An estimated 65,500 adopted children are living with a lesbian or gay parent.” More children in america are getting adopted by gay couples and the numbers are still…
Adoption is an extremely sensitive subject,(insert dash) especially for individuals who are Gay or Lesbian. There is much controversy on the topic. There are a variety of ways to which it isn’t possible for a couple to adopt. Infertility is becoming a greater problem in our time. In Gerald P. Mallon’s article, “Assessing Lesbian and Gay Prospective Foster and Adoptive Families: A Focus on the Home Study Process,” in 2007. He introduces a few different ways gay men and lesbian couples go about starting a family and mentions how the decision to adopt or become a foster parent for a child is a huge step in parenting. There are even more studies today that show, gay men and lesbians make good parents. In Scott Weber’s article, “Nursing Care of Families with Parents who are Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, or Transgender,” he brings to attention, what the child may experience growing up in such circumstances. Some things a child may experience are teasing and sensitivity to being harassed. Both articles have valid arguments on the topic of gay men and lesbian headed families. Mallon argues how lesbians and gay men are potential parents for many children and youth who need permanent families while Webber argues children of non heterosexual couples are more likely to be teased and sensitive to being harassed.…
Homosexuals must be allowed to adopt children just like any other couple who want to do the same thing. A child needs love, respect and a home in which they can assure themselves that there will be someone there to care for them. As in the example, there is no need for a dad and a mom who will always be arguing about the shared custody. Just because their parents are homosexuals does not mean that the child will grow up to be the same. Everyone is different and will grow up to be what they want to be. Children don’t always come out exactly like their parents. These children aren’t any different. They will grow up to think for themselves and decide their own sexuality.…
Living in a country known for its freedom, an individual wouldn't stop and consider that they would need a law to be passed to marry someone they love. In the most recent poll over whether or not gay marriage should be legalized has been taken you can see that the united states supports it more than oppose it:…
Love is something that everyone, across the Nation, should be allowed to experience and enjoy at some point in their lives. It is unfortunate that love is and will be a challenge for some. Gay couples, for example, have been confronted with obstacles relative to their relationships and desire to openly express their love publicly without ridicule. Most Gays could not reveal their sexual preference without the fear of being judged. Based on media exposure, reality television and magazine articles, some Gays, male and female, have shared their fears and articulated their concerns about their love for the same sex. The fears were created from previously reported attacks, biases and the lack of understanding the sexual differences.…
Thomas Jefferson quoted in the Declaration of Independence “All men are created equal” what does this mean? It means that all men are to have the same rights. That no one should be treated more superiorly and have more opportunities. Gay adoption is an extremely controversial issue in our world today. Many people believe that it should be banned, and that homosexuals shouldn’t experience the same rights that heterosexuals get. Homosexuals are the same as anyone else in the world and offer just as much to the upbringing of a child. Just because a person lives a different way than other people doesn’t mean they should have their rights taken from them. Same-sex people should be allowed to adopt children just like the rest of the world without shame.The legal definition of marriage states that it is “a contract made in due form of law, by which a free man and a free woman reciprocally engage to live with each other during their joint lives, in the union which ought to exist between husband and wife. By the terms freeman and freewoman in this definition are meant, not only that they are free and not slaves, but also that they are clear of all bars to a lawful marriage.”(5) The worldly, unadorned definition states that marriage is “the state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband or wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law.” (6) Both of these definitions claim that marriage is basically the bond between a man and woman who are in agreement to spend the rest of their lives with each other. They also both state that marriage is a bonded relationship recognized by law. However, another definition of marriage does not declare that the individuals must be of the opposite sex. It states that marriage is “the state of being united to a person of the same sex in a relationship like that of a traditional marriage.”(6) Traditional marriage. Why is it traditional? Who is to say that it is traditional? No one really…
According to a dictionary, the definition of adoption is the formal legal process to adopt and raise as one's own child. Well in our country we see nothing wrong with adoption. On the contrary, we see adoption as a wonderful act for people to take a child into their homes and give them love, support, and a future that they did not receive from their real parents. But the word "adoption" becomes controversial after homosexuals or a same sex couple is added to such act. As a well-civilized nation and society, adoption from homosexual must be rejected and not permitted to homosexual couples. Adoption is a critical matter as well as a very important decision that the child that is being adopted never obtains the chance to make. Adopting a child…
Most critics of gay adoption argue that if a child is brought up in a home with same sex parents that the child will be "ruined". However, most child welfare advocates do not agree, they feel that if these orphaned children are not allowed to be adopted by gay and lesbian parents, a lot of children who have been waiting for a very long time to be adopted and are in desperate need of a home, may have to wait even longer, unnecessarily. In 2003 alone there were 123,249 children waiting to be adopted in out-of-home care. While in foster care there were 47,696 children. Of all these children that await a family, should the law continually determine the fate of these children…
Adoption has been about for a long time, however, just as of late has the subject of gay Adoption raised. There are numerous vagrants on the planet. However, insufficient families or guardians to take them in. There aren't that numerous family who can and will receive youngsters, whether this is because they can't bolster them, they have offspring of their own, or they simply don't need children. The final product is still an excess of stranded youngsters needing an adoring family. There is an answer for this issue Gay adoption. There is a rising measure of open gay person couples all over, and a significant portion of them would love to have children, yet it's still unlawful for gay person couples to receive children in a few territories of…
Homosexuals have always adopted children clandestinely for the love of having a family together regardless of their sexual orientation. Nowadays, homosexuals are being taken more seriously in the adoption field. In the last years "6 to 14 million children have a gay or lesbian parent, and between 8 and 10 million children are being raised in gay and lesbian households " (Family Find law). Furthermore, having parents from the same sex will influence the children depressingly in their adulthood and might be mortified having two mothers or two fathers or one of the parents dating another person from the same sex. Will these children be harassed by the society? Legalizing adoption for the same sex parents is definitely a tough and long procedure since raising a child is one of the hardest steps that one can make in their lifetime…
In 2008, President Barack Obama stated there are too many children who need loving parents to deny one group of people adoption rights (eQuality, 2005). A child will benefit from a healthy, loving home, whether the parents are gay or not (eQuality, 2005). With that statement in 2008 from the individual who holds the most powerful authority in the United States, why are gay and lesbian couples today still battling adoption laws? When in fact while trying to adopt and raise children a couple’s sexual orientation should not be a factor. Homosexuals should not have to battle or circumvent adoption laws. The American family does not look the same as it did 30 years ago; therefore the adoption laws should not be the same either.…