The Academy Award winning film Ordinary People follows a family that just endured a tragic loss. The movie is focused around the Jarrett family of Beth, the mother, Calvin, the father, and Conrad the son. The Jarret family has recently lost their son Buck in a boating accident. The other son Conrad was with Buck and witnessed him being pulled away by the current. Conrad is deeply impacted by the death of his brother and even tries to commit suicide. The movie picks up right after Conrad returns from a mental hospital. Each family member is still trying to cope with the loss. However, Conrad, Beth, and Calvin each have hard time communicating their feelings and therefore result to using silence and violence.…
People often find themselves engulfed in conflict whether they like it or not. Bystanders in conflict choose to sit on the edge and withstand or ignore the indirect missiles that set aim towards one’s values or opinions, whilst doing so they are only delaying the inevitable which is falling to the pressures of conflict. This is much like Blackwood from the novel ‘The Secret River’ where he finds himself ignoring smasher’s rude and foul actions and remarks, up until a point where he can no longer withstand it caving in to the pressures of conflict erupting into a violent clash with smasher, Which is why bystanders who choose to sit on the edge of conflict only make it difficult for them to remain a bystanders regardless of the…
Philosopher Emerson once said “every coin has two sides; so do conflicts”. In the pages of human history, conflicts are unavoidable and while major conflicts such as war have been evil forces in the world it can also produce very positive results. That is not to say conflict is entirely positive. When conflict arises there are those individuals that show unexpected qualities; those assets that are sudden and unforseen. These assets can be seen in the movie The Sapphires through the character Dave and on a global scale through Mandela. Unfortunately there are also those individuals who in the midst of conflict express unexpected negative traits. This can be seen through the characters Gail and Kay in The Sapphires and most recently through Eddie McGuire. Ultimately, until individuals are challenged we will never truly know how they will react.…
In chapter one of Interpersonal Conflicts, Hocker and Wilmot propose that our childhood socialization impacts how people deal with conflicts. I found it valid the “our family of origin socializes us into constructive or destructive ways of handling conflict…” (Hocker & Wilmot, 2014, p. 3). My conflict style along with my self-examination through “Kegan’s Five Stages of Development” significantly characterize my conflict pattern. These two methods of identifying the origins of my conflict pattern along with White and Winslade’s ideas of externalizing the narrative significantly impact my pattern of rational thinking accompanied my irrational action.…
The book titled Confronting without Offending is filled with compelling strategies when posed with dealing with conflicts. From the…
Conflict is an inevitable part of human existence. Whenever two or more people interact with each other, there exists a potential for conflict. Conflict arises from a clash of ideas, power- hungry people and individual differences. Struggle for power occurs everywhere, ranging from a school yard to a war ground. The outcomes of struggle however depend on the coping skills, personal qualities and the values and beliefs of the individual. In a situation of extreme conflict, the individual is put to a test where he is required to be resilient and calm so that he can smoothly survive such a dangerous circumstance. The true test of one’s character is not based on what conflict they face, but how the individual deals with the conflict.…
In 2012, it was estimated that more than 172 million people were affected by conflict worldwide. The effect of so many people being affected by conflicts is a way to respond to them. With all the conflicts in the world, people need to be able to respond and react to these conflicts in the best possible way. People can best respond to conflict by believing in what they think is right and persevering through everything against them, so they can show what is morally right, let nothing hold them back, and help others with the same issue along the way. During times of conflict, it is important for people to choose a side they believe in, so they can show what they think is right.…
Every day we encounter fights sometimes small sometimes way more aggravated. The movie The Interrupters shows us how fights can escalates from just talking to someone getting killed. The Interrupters by Steve James uses life stories of the team members and visual arguments to show how circumstances can change someone’s life forever, However they show viewers that CeaseFire changed everyone’s life in a very brief duration while some of the team members were not sure in what they were doing themselves furthermore they never showed a case they failed to solve.The Interrupters gave parents and people who do not deal with this dilemma everyday a great massage.…
The conflict styles included in the Thomas Kilmann Conflict Mode instruments are competing, collaborating, compromising, avoiding, and accommodating. A multivariate analysis of variance (MANOVA), which is the overall difference between two or more groups, was used to determine if personality and family conflict resolution had an influence on the preferred conflict handling styles. First, the Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Modes styles were used as the dependent variables, and the personalities measured by BFI as the independent variable. Then, the Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode styles were the dependent variable and the FCRS was the independent variable…
Since I grew up in a family with an abusive father, my response to conflict differs from most people. My father resolved conflict by shouting, degrading, and often physically abusing the other person. My mother’s response to conflict was to try to settle a compromise or walk away until her own frustration was no longer there. I think based off the conflict responses I observed growing up, my responses are a mixture of my parents. When in an intense argument with someone, I attack their character and then silence them out. Family members play a big part in how we resolve conflicts, because a good portion of our lives begin by us spending time with and watching our relatives. We, as a society, adapt skills and mannerisms from those closest to…
Conflict permeates every aspect of our lives, it is inevitable and inescapable. But It is how we choose to conduct ourselves in these times of conflict that define who we are and how we are viewed in society. "Conflict builds character. Crisis defines it.” Those were the words of Senior Master Sergeant Steven V.Thulon, which demonstrates how conflict can change us. When individuals encounter conflict, many find themselves in unfamiliar situations where they must face new challenges and struggles. It is in these moments that we can experience a change, for we may come to a sudden realization, understanding or insight of ourselves. Ordinary people acting out in the face of conflict in an extraordinary way can be seen when placed under extreme pressure in situations involving war, love or threatening situations.…
There are times in conflict where one must tackle it head on to resolve it but there are other instances where approaching conflict upfront may be detrimental to the individual. When an individual actively engages in conflict there is an opportunity to resolve it as one’s views and values may change the opposition’s perspective on an issue. However, individuals or groups who engage in conflict may sometimes worsen the situation as divergent views and values may cause harm and suffering to those involved. The idea of avoiding conflict can be caused by a number of factors as some individuals may pride on being uninvolved whereas some may avoid disagreements due to a fear of health and safety. Sometimes avoiding disputes may be the correct way to deal with conflict but it is often not the case. Dealing with conflict by being involved is often the most methodical way to resolve an issue but there are instances where being engaged can be detrimental to an individual or group.…
Bouchard, E. (2006). Conquering conflict: An effective technique for resolving blended family conflicts. Rapid City, SD.…
As many critics say, Minority Report is one of the movies that has a very realistic vision upon future. Directed by Steven Spielberg, Minority Report is based on a short story by Philip K. Dick. It’s a neo-noir science fiction movie and was officially released on June, 2002. The action in the movie happens in 2054, in Washington D.C and in Northern Virginia. An elite squad that enforces law named “PreCrime”, eliminates crime virtually from Washington D.C. The whole story revolves around John Anderton, captain of “PreCrime”. With the help of three gifted humans called “precogs”, the squad manages to stop crimes before they take place. But the system seems to make an error, when it shows that John Anderton will commit a murder in the next 36 hours. So a “manhunt” begins, a “manhunt” of himself, as Anderton is determined to prove that the system is wrong and to find out the truth. He also believes that one of the “precogs” predictions’, namely Agatha’s, will help him find the truth of this “minority report”.…
Reflection on my experience in the Organisational Behaviour team over the semester with particular attention to the way that Communication interacts with Conflict.…