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According To Paula Yoo's Good Enough
“Good Enough” by Paula Yoo relates in many ways to my existence. Being pressured all the time during school and during summer. Good scores, Good Grades, and being on top of everyone is a must. Second, Third, and places below that are for losers. You always have to be on the top or you're just a disgrace. Always comparing to other people below you saying they could've done better. Although you try and try there's just some kind of distraction in life preventing you to keep going. For example family problems, personal problems, and being not economically ok. Friends and boyfriends are distractions to my parents and that friends are always going to stop you from reaching your goal in life. Them wanting me to become a doctor and not wanting me to waste my life in some simpleminded career. Me wanting to spend time with friends but my parents restricting it from me because they think my friends are going to lead me to a wrong path and destroy my career. I tend to always find friends that would help me and embolden my ability to become a great person in life for the future but also friends that …show more content…

You’re either FIRST or LAST.”. Being first can state something excellent in you. Although being last can state that you don’t work as hard as the first place winner which can’t necessarily mean that you’re the worst. Parents tend to want their children to succeed which makes them want to pressure their children without them knowing. Student are pressured by parents in wanting to make their parents proud in order for their parents to be happy and feel delighted to have a wonderful child. Having parents that are very strict is complicated and difficult to make everything pleasing for them. Grades, SAT’s, and everything that associates with school. Theres times where parents want you to do great just to brag to other parents that their kids are the best and their always number one at a

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