However, rather than punishing the man she married she will seek revenge on the younger woman. Metaphorically this suggests that the patriarchy is so deeply rooted in our society that women have reached the point where the begin to hate each other, rather than the men who start the problems. Blythe Baird parallels Huang E by stating “how could I not fall in love with my illness? /With becoming the kind of silhouette people are supposed to fall in love with?” Through this extended metaphor about social constructs Baird emphasizes the true depths of body shaming. Baird delves into her own self-hate for her body, in an interview stating “when I was 15, I went to rehab and bullshitted my way through it. I was hell bent on going back to starving myself the minute I got out” (Latifi). Only further showcasing how this disorder began to control her life and that the only way to feel loved was to remain the ideal shaped woman society idolized. Continuing Baird writes “when I was little, someone asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up and I said “small.” Further highlighting how society instills body shaming into our youth, only showcasing skinny women on TV, living a life of luxury, full
However, rather than punishing the man she married she will seek revenge on the younger woman. Metaphorically this suggests that the patriarchy is so deeply rooted in our society that women have reached the point where the begin to hate each other, rather than the men who start the problems. Blythe Baird parallels Huang E by stating “how could I not fall in love with my illness? /With becoming the kind of silhouette people are supposed to fall in love with?” Through this extended metaphor about social constructs Baird emphasizes the true depths of body shaming. Baird delves into her own self-hate for her body, in an interview stating “when I was 15, I went to rehab and bullshitted my way through it. I was hell bent on going back to starving myself the minute I got out” (Latifi). Only further showcasing how this disorder began to control her life and that the only way to feel loved was to remain the ideal shaped woman society idolized. Continuing Baird writes “when I was little, someone asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up and I said “small.” Further highlighting how society instills body shaming into our youth, only showcasing skinny women on TV, living a life of luxury, full