Can enjoy be mtslef, feel things are in me, and can say this: I have my body - this is the most important content constitutes happiness. Therefore, a statement made by Aristotle is worthy of repeated recollection: Happiness lies for those easily satisfied man. One reason is that people have to rely on other than their own, can not have the exact confidently rely on others; Another reason is the difficulties brought about by the social giving and inconvenience, annoyance and danger is difficult to count, it can not be avoided.
Wrong way to get happiness than the pursuit of life of debauchery, the reason is that we are attempting to put life into a tragic succession of pleasure, joy and enjoyment. Thus, the disillusionment will follow; and deceive and lie to each other must be accompanied by this kind of life and to the people there.
First of all, living in a social crowd which inevitably requires people of mutual accommodation and tolerance; therefore, the greater people's party scene, the easier becomes boring. Only when a person alone, he can …show more content…
fully become their own. Anyone who does not love solitude, he is not a love of freedom, because only when a person alone, he is free. Cautious, constraints inevitably accompanied by social gatherings.
One can only achieve the most perfect harmony with their
Rather than with a friend or spouse
Roughly speaking, one can only achieve the most perfect harmony with themselves, rather than with a friend or spouse, because of differences in terms of personality and temperament among people will certainly bring some lack of coordination, even if they do not coordination is fairly minor. Thus, complete, true inner peace and tranquility feeling - this is second only to the health of this earth between the supreme boon - and only in one man alone when they can procure; and to maintain this long-term mood, only reclusive the job.
Thus, if a person's own great and rich, then this person will be able to enjoy the happiest situation in this poor world we can find to get. Indeed, we can say: friendship, love and honor the people closely linked together, but the final analysis, people can only count on yourself honestly, at most, counting on their children. Since the objective or subjective conditions, more people do not need to deal with a people, then his situation is better.
Lonely harm even if not all of a sudden we felt it was also that people can glance; contrast, the disadvantages of social life that is secret: entertainment, gossip and other fun of dealing with people hide a huge, usually is irreparable scourge. Young people first learn a lesson, it is to bear alone, because loneliness is happiness, a source of well-being. Accordingly we can see, only those who rely on their own, from which all things to appreciate their own talents situation is the most wonderful person. Therefore, Cicero said, "a entirely on its own, all regarded as belonging to his things existed in his own people is impossible not happy."
In addition, an individual's own have more, then others can give him the less. It is this sense of self-sufficient so that people do not want to have intrinsic value for rich interaction with others and make necessary sacrifices obvious; they can not take the initiative to seek these exchanges denied self. By contrast, since the lack of its own inherent, mediocre people like dealing with people, I like to accommodate others. This is because they tolerate others than themselves are much more likely to endure.
Stupid people suffering from its stupid pain
Enrich the minds of people can play the piano alone, itself is a small band.
A complete typical person is an independent entity, rather than the unity of which a small portion of people. Therefore, this person is sufficient complete itself. In this sense, we can mediocrity than Russian horns of those instruments. Each horn can only issue a tone, the required horns properly get together to play music. Public spirit and temperament monotonous, tedious, like those can only be issued horns musical tones. Indeed, many people seem to lifetime only some kind of static views, in addition, they have not the ability to generate other thoughts and ideas up. Thus not only explain why these people are so bored, they also explains why so keen on interacting with people, especially like swarms. It is human social characteristics.
People drab personality so that they can not stand myself, "stupid people suffering from its stupid tired of suffering brought about." Only people conspire, when united, can make a difference.
However, a rich ideological-minded people, but they can be able to play music with a musician alone compared; Or, we can he likened to a piano. Piano itself is a small band. Similarly, such a person is a miniature world. Other people need to be complementary, but single-minded sense of such a person in itself is already a continuum. Like the piano, he is not a member of a symphony orchestra, he is more suited to play alone. If he really need to play to cooperate with others, he can only get another musical accompaniment as vocalist, bands like the piano. Or, like the piano as he set the vocal tone.
Those who do like social interaction can be drawn from a rule inside my metaphor: Quality Communication population lacking only be offset to some extent by the size of the crowd. There is a thinking mind companions sufficient. But if in addition to mediocrity it hard to find other people, then these people gather a certain number of seemed like a good idea, because these people through their differences and complement each other - followed horns musical metaphor - we or it will be harvested. Hopefully, God gave us patience!
Also, since poor people's hearts and empty, when those people for some more excellent and noble ideals and goals and as a group, and finally, almost without exception have suffered such a result: in that huge crowd - they like everything covered, no holes are not drilled bacteria, ready to seize any opportunity to drive away boredom - there are always some people entering into or forcibly break into this group. Will not take long, this group was either destroyed or tampered with true colors was, contrary to the original intention of the composition of this group.
In addition, people's social life can be seen as spiritual people warm to each other ,, This is similar to the people crowded together in cold weather to warm the body. However, their own people with extraordinary ideas and heat do not need other people crowded in with the piece.
We bear all unfortunate
We can not be alone because the
Loneliness is a spiritual endowment excellent bring double benefits: First, he can as partners with their own; second, he need not with someone else. The second point is precious, especially we remember the shackles of social interaction by means, annoyance and even dangerous, leaves Raab said: "We bear all unfortunate because the we can not be alone."
Bo, then that Gordon de St. angstrom in the phrase, and said very wonderful: "moderation with people makes us peace of mind." Therefore, anyone who is in the early years will be able to adapt to being alone, and likes to be alone, that he as good as it got a gold mine.
Of course, not everyone is able to do so.
As at driving people from the outset by the lack gathered together, once solved the lack of boring the same will people driven to one. If you do not suffer deprivation and boredom of driving, one might be man alone, although only because everyone thinks is important, or even think of themselves as unique, live alone just for evaluation of their own people so; because life in crowded, complex world which will become falter around constraints, the eyes of their own importance and uniqueness will be greatly reduced. In this sense, alone or even a natural, suitable for everyone's living conditions: it makes everyone enjoy again as primordial, consistent with their nature of happiness like
Adam.
But of course, Adam and no father and mother! So, in another sense that alone is not natural for people, at least, when people came to this world, he found he was not alone in the world. His parents, brothers, sisters, therefore, he was among a group. Accordingly, for love alone is not a primordial tendency, but in the experience of experience and consider future products; and, to be alone with the progress of our favorite psychic abilities and at the same time increasing the age formed. Therefore, in general, one desires to the extent of social interaction is inversely proportional to his age.
* Young children left alone on a moment's time will be frightened and in pain crying. To a boy single person it is for him severely punished.
* Young people can easily join together, only those noble young people will sometimes attempt a lonely person, but if alone for the time of day, it is still difficult.
* Adults but it can easily do this, they can already be alone a long time; and, the greater the age, the more he can be alone.
* Finally, the old man to reach the seventies, for entertainment or pleasure in life is no longer needed or has been completely indifferent, peers who have been put in passing, for this old man, the solitude just right for their needs. But personally, alone, tends to stray is always directly related to a person's spiritual values. This tendency, as I have already said, is not purely natural and direct from our needs, it's just our life experience and this experience results after thinking, it is the vast majority of people in our moral and ideological the tragic aspect of the poor nature of some understanding of future product.
The worst situation we can encounter than found in people who lack the moral and intellectual deficiencies on jointly and cause trouble, so, it is a variety of highly unpleasant situation occurs. We do not feel happy, can not even tolerate reason here to interact with the majority of people. Thus, while there is no lack many bad things in this world, but worst gathering crowd. Even the extensive communication Frenchman Voltaire also had to admit: "In this world, we should not talk to people everywhere."
OF | Schopenhauer